*✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ: husband hcs ✧
. . ⇢ ˗ˏˋsummary proposal, wedding and husband w boynextdoor
. . ⇢ ˗ˏˋpairing nonidol!bnd x afab!reader
. . . ⇢ ˗ˏˋwarnings marriage content, physical content, metions of arguments between couples, the reader can get pregntant, having children, mentions of sickness
. . . ⇢ ˗ˏˋnote why is haechani4ever writing abt boynextdoor lol? well, ive been writing abt nctdream for two years, and decided to write for other groups that i like. for my 7dream babes, this day ill be posting the nct dream version if i can. let me know if u like it. always thankful for all the suppor, love u
He would wait several years before proposing—probably four or a little more.
He always knew you were the one, but he wasn’t sure if you felt the same way.
He also wanted to test how stable their relationship was in the long run.
He’d do a lot of research before buying the ring—
the typical guy who looks through your social media posts, reviews on how comfortable they are, etc.
He also plans the whole proposal perfectly.
On that day, he isn’t really nervous—which is normal—because he’s confident you’ll say yes.
He’ll probably take you to either the restaurant where you had one of your first dates or your favorite spot.
He’ll ask the waiter for a table that’s secluded and quiet; he wants it to be intimate and private so you don’t feel any pressure.
You’ll be lingering at the table, chatting before dessert or waiting for the check.
He knows it’s the right moment.
His hand slides down his pants, into his pocket; his fingers move, searching for a velvety, cube-shaped object.
He places it between his legs, waiting for you to finish what you’re saying.
He smiles gently and sets the little box on the table.
“yn , I’ve been thinking about doing this ever since I kissed you for the first time. Would you do me the honor of marrying me and spending the rest of my life by your side?”
As he recites his words, you reach for the box and open it.
It’s the ring just as you dreamed it would be: delicate and subtle, yet it screams that you’re loved.
You say yes, and he gets so emotional
he can’t contain himself and comes over to kiss you.
He likes to organize things, so he’s 100% involved in the process.
He wants something classic and elegant; he likes to play it safe.
He’ll probably suggest a place like a hotel or a garden.
It’s not really a big event, but it’s not so intimate that it would be considered a small wedding either.
Still, he avoids looking at things like your dress, hairstyle, etc. He’d like that to be a surprise.
But I can also see him suggesting a moment before the ceremony to see each other, to be together.
The vows are traditional, but still sweet.
That was probably his favorite moment: saying so many feelings out loud, coming from the depths of his heart, and despite everyone being there, just thinking that he’s confessing them to you.
They have a quiet first dance, and surely another one when all the guests have left—no music needed, just enjoying each other’s company.
As for the honeymoon, it would be peaceful.
I’d choose a place with a beach or a natural setting where they can relax.
They might not move in together right away when they get married; Sungho would suggest waiting until both of them are financially stable. If that happens before the wedding, they’ll probably already be living together by then.
It’s a comfortable and organized home.
The decor is likely minimalist to ensure both of you are happy.
He enjoys taking care of the house, so he usually does the cleaning.
He might also enjoy cooking for the two of you, especially when you come home tired.
He doesn’t overcomplicate the recipes he chooses; he always makes something healthy but quick and easy to cook.
You probably have a well-defined routine.
He might buy something like a chalkboard or a place to write down each of your schedules—not just for yourself, but for the other person too.
On weekends, especially Sundays, you don’t really do anything special.
He might make plans for the two of you at home, like watching a movie or catching up on a show you’re watching together.
But he also likes spending time on his own: you doing your thing and him doing his, while still enjoying each other’s company.
He likes that kind of intimacy, and it’s one of his favorite things about living together—continuing to have your own lives while still being there for each other.
Sweet nicknames—especially now that you spend so much time together in private—
his way of showing love is through acts of service.
He shows his love by taking care of you.
As I already explained, he enjoys taking care of the home, so doing chores for you—like folding your clothes or packing your lunch before work—isn’t a burden for him at all.
He’s the first one there when you’re sick or need something.
You can call him at any time of day; he’ll be wherever you say, ready to do whatever you ask
He’s just such a helpful husband
He plans dates often; he likes being at home with you, but he enjoys going out just as much.
As for arguments—if they ever come up—he always acts very mature and firm.
You’d never sleep apart; he always makes sure to resolve whatever caused the disagreement by the end of the day
It’s also because he can’t sleep well if he’s worried about upsetting you—he just knows there’s something left unresolved
He’s not really very jealous; he’s just protective
He doesn’t like it when people stare at you in a creepy way on the street or treat you badly, but if they show interest in you, it doesn’t bother him—he understands them perfectly!
He never forgets an anniversary, and he listens to every word you say
They talked about it for a long time, but they just didn't feel ready to be parents.
Maybe they'd adopt a pet first to see how they do at taking care of a living creature.
It turns out they’re pretty good at it. We shouldn’t compare taking care of a pet to taking care of a baby, but it does make them feel a little more ready to take the plunge.
During the pregnancy, he won’t let you lift a finger—he takes care of everything and insists on it.
He handles any situation that comes up, and the baby stops crying as soon as he’s in his arms.
It seems like he transmits this calmness to the baby.
Or maybe the baby is just a daddy’s little boy or girl.
He’s content with two children; he likes the idea that his little ones can play together.
He’s very protective—always—and sometimes you have to rein him in a bit.
But he just can’t help worrying!
His children are simply the apple of his eye, and he loves knowing that he shares them with you.
You make a great team—not just as a couple, but as a family.
Another guy who’s been waiting quite a while—
He’ll choose a simple but meaningful ring
He’ll probably take you somewhere very private, just the two of you
Maybe one of those Pinterest-style proposals in a natural setting
The excuse was a walk to unwind; they’d both had a hectic week
He lets you walk a few steps ahead until you notice he’s not there
You realize you’re talking to yourself, turn around, and there he is, standing there
At first you think he’s lagging behind to look at something or tie his shoelaces—especially when he bends down
You walk over, incredulous
but he’s not reaching for his shoes—he’s reaching into his pockets: that’s when you know
“Can I be your husband, yn?”
The way he says it—so tender, as if asking you for a favor. You can’t help but melt right there on the spot
and, of course, accept his proposal
Surely, just like in your proposal, he’d prefer something intimate.
If it were up to him, it would just be the two of you.
Even so, on the day of the ceremony, it feels like it’s just the two of you.
Just a few guests: family and your closest friends.
Also, a simple ceremony, without too many frills.
But I can see him hiring one of those live painters to create a beautiful memento of the moment.
He’d choose a very simple setting—a garden or a forest.
I can picture him having just one large table for all the guests, set up to feel as intimate as possible.
His favorite moment would definitely be when it’s all over and you can be together.
You’ll probably have a lovely conversation about how you can’t believe you got married.
For your honeymoon, you’d go somewhere quiet and secluded.
You move into a cozy apartment in a neighborhood that’s not too busy, but not too far from downtown either.
The place is decorated in a warm style.
You’re probably the type who would never turn on the overhead light—instead, you have lots of small light sources scattered around the place.
You enjoy spending time in the kitchen, so you often offer to cook dinner if you’re busy.
If that’s not the case, you like to cook together.
He does little favors every day that help keep things tidy: washing his cup right after using it, not leaving shampoo on the shower floor, arranging the bed pillows, picking up clothes off the floor.
He’s also very organized with his own things.
If you have a double sink, his side will always be spotless.
I really don’t know how he does it.
He enjoys silence; his apartment is quiet and invites you not to disturb that stillness, but he likes to be silent with you.
Their favorite part of the day is lying in bed together, being quiet, and trying to fall asleep.
Lazy Sunday mornings, barely getting out of bed, watching movies, and ordering food at night. It makes Mondays feel a little easier to handle.
He doesn't use many nicknames; he usually calls you by your name.
His way of showing love is through acts of service: removing your makeup when you're tired, drying your hair, helping you with pending tasks
But I also see it in light physical contact—
holding hands while watching TV, kisses on the cheeks and nose, stroking your hair or tucking it behind your ear
Simple dates—they almost always go to the same places}
He avoids arguments; as soon as he senses a disagreement is escalating, he invites you to sit down and work it out calmly
And if an argument does happen, it usually upsets him a lot
He isn’t really jealous; he trusts you completely
He understands that people might approach you with different intentions, but he knows you’ll reject them}
He only has eyes for you, and he has no doubt that you feel the same way
Simple anniversaries, like having his favorite things for breakfast and spending the day together
Or even going on a day trip together
When you get sick, he does everything for you, and if you’re really feeling terrible, he doesn’t hesitate to call in sick to work and stay with you to take care of you
He also always waits for you to fall asleep before he does
He wants to wait a few years; he wants to enjoy married life just the two of you for a while before becoming parents.
He’ll probably want just one or two children.
He finds it hard to talk to you about it—he doesn’t know why, maybe because he never feels ready enough.
But you start trying anyway.
When you tell him, he’s really emotional.
He cries with joy and can’t stop hugging you.
An extremely caring and attentive husband throughout the pregnancy.
When the baby is finally born, he can’t believe he could ever be happier by your side—but somehow he is.
He can never decide whether he was happier on the day he married you or when you had children.
A very patient father, he tries everything to please his child.
He gets very nervous when the baby won’t stop crying and he doesn’t know what the baby wants.
He doesn’t mind waking up at night to take care of the baby.
As his children grow up, he just wants them to have the most peaceful childhood possible.
Wait until you're both financially and emotionally stable—but not too stable.
I can tell he lets his feelings guide him quite a bit, and those feelings are pretty strong, so maybe in two and a half years you'll have him down on one knee.
He’ll go for something intimate, but spontaneous and romantic at the same time.
Maybe he’ll take you on a picnic to a quiet spot, like a normal date.
Maybe he’ll wait until sunset, or your favorite time of day, to propose.
It’s a long and sincere speech, full of emotion.
He probably had something rehearsed, but in the heat of the moment, it all went out the window, and he said whatever came from his heart.
“Dear YN, we’ve already shared so much. I love you with all the complexity and depth of my heart for who you are as a person. I can’t wait to take the next step—to be more than we already are. I want to be the husband and the person you deserve by your side. Would you do me the honor?”
As soon as you say “yes”—with tears welling up as the words left his mouth—he rushes toward you, without waiting to put the ring on your finger, and kisses you
He’s very involved in the planning; he’s way more excited than you are.
He tells EVERYONE about your engagement.
A medium-sized wedding leaning toward the larger side, with family and friends.
More than luxury, he’s looking for warmth and celebrating the fact that you two are together.
He writes very long and personal vows; he has a natural way with words when it comes to romance.
As soon as he sees you walking down the aisle, he can’t help but get emotional, but he completely breaks down when you say your vows.
He swears his favorite moment was seeing you walk toward him in that dress while he waited for you.
He simply can’t believe he’s marrying someone like you.
You have a really fun first dance, with lots of twirls and some pretty upbeat music.
I can see him choosing an active honeymoon.
Maybe they won’t choose just one specific place, but rather a tour.
A place like Japan comes to mind, with a variety of landscapes, from the city to a quieter spot.
Or maybe visiting several European cities like Madrid, Paris, Vienna, and London.
I think they’d be the kind of person who enjoys traveling and seeing the world.
They’ll move in very soon—maybe by the time they get engaged, or even sooner.
They’ll get a spacious apartment
with cozy decor, full of photos and lovely mementos.
He has no problem dividing up the chores
He feels satisfied when he finishes a task
He’s very capable: he can do everything from ironing to fixing the plumbing
Like I said, he has no problem—whatever you ask him to do, he’ll do it
He cooks when he feels like it, or when you can’t
It’s not that he’s bad at it; he just prefers to do other things
He always plays music at home
I can picture him reenacting those movie scenes where the characters crank up the music really loud and dance
The neighbors definitely hate you—the two of you tend to be noisy *wink wink*
He talks constantly about anything and everything.
He just takes advantage of the fact that he lives with someone who loves him and will listen to him.
Sundays with brunch and spontaneous outings to discover new places.
Life with him is just so much fun.
Lots of sweet nicknames—he’s always testing his creativity and your patience
His love language is words of affirmation and physical touch
He’s just so affectionate
Not a day goes by without him telling you he loves you at least three times: when he wakes up (because you’re better than any dream he was having), when he gets home from work (because it makes him happy to come home tired and find you there), and before bed (because every day he spends by your side makes him happier)
spontaneous dates, like seeing something and getting the urge to do it
he doesn’t need much planning
when it comes to arguments, Jaehyun is a straightforward guy: as soon as he senses a problem, he talks it out
He teases you when someone shows interest in you, just messing with you
But he can’t really pretend to be upset about it—he trusts you more than anyone else
And since he’s so affectionate in public, everyone knows you two are a couple
He always plans gifts or sweet activities for anniversaries
If you get sick, he doesn’t leave your side; he stays with you in bed without fear of catching it, just to keep you company and help you
He sleeps completely wrapped up in your arms, and at night you can’t even go to the bathroom without waking him up
He notices your absence very easily; he feels like something essential is missing
He wants to enjoy a few years of marriage, but he’s ready whenever you are.
I see him as someone who’s always wanted kids.
He’s been thinking about it ever since they walked down the aisle.
He doesn’t hesitate to bring up the subject just a few months into the relationship; he wants to know where you want to go with him.
Then, he brings it up again a little before your first wedding anniversary.
When you tell him you’re pregnant, at first he starts jumping up and down with excitement, then he sits down and starts crying.
I’m sorry, but Myungjae gives off major stay-at-home dad vibes.
I can picture him caring for his baby with the utmost tenderness.
He’s a typical first-time dad.
He’s really fun—the kind who plays with his kids at whatever they ask, no matter how physically demanding it is.
He’s also very involved; there isn’t a single event involving his kids that he misses, and he’s always there to listen to them and help them.
He simply dreams of a warm home, full of life and laughter.
I wouldn't set a specific time frame for how long I'd wait before asking you; I'd just wait until I feel ready to take that step.
I'd look for a ring with a story behind it, or at least some kind of meaning.
I'd do it in a place that's symbolic for the two of you.
I'd take you on a date to the park where you had one of your first dates.
I'd try to go at a time when it's not too crowded, to make it as private as possible.
I’d take you to a bridge—the bridge where you shared your first kiss.
You’d be admiring the view of the pond, and he’d start to speak:
“I love you more than anything in the world, and I can’t wait to keep loving you for eternity. If you accept my proposal to share, from this moment on, the rest of our lives, I swear I’ll be the best husband you could ever wish for.”
He seems a little nervous, but you can tell these words are coming from the very depths of his being.
She’s silently moved, and you can see it in that genuine, innocent smile—the one you know and adore so well.
He's very involved in the planning.
He wants an elegant or aesthetically pleasing wedding.
As for venues, it could be in a garden, a vineyard, or a historic and significant place like a museum.
Very elaborate vows—he spent a lot of time writing them, and you can tell he put a lot of effort into them.
Even though he’s not the best with words, he feels proud.
Your vows almost made him cry, but he tried to hold it together.
That was definitely his favorite moment of the entire ceremony.
He’ll opt for an intimate first dance.
In fact, I can see him skipping the first dance during the ceremony and doing it at the end—just the two of you.
I also think your wedding rings would be quite classic.
For your honeymoon, you’d probably go somewhere interesting, with a lot of cultural significance.
I think he’d like to go somewhere in South America or Southeast Asia.
A house with a library or a study
I think his home would have a very artistic decor: not just paintings, but lots of books, vinyl records, and unique decorative pieces
I see him as someone who’s really fun when it comes to decorating his home
He really respects your personal space—not just because he respects you, but because he needs it himself
He enjoys solitude as a source of peace and relaxation
He likes having moments where you pursue your hobbies and he pursues his
It would be a pretty musical home; there would always be soft music playing in the background during every conversation or moment of comfortable silence.
It’s a lovely way to make life feel a little like a movie.
A lot of time spent together in silence, perhaps with very light physical contact.
I think I’d cook occasionally; you’d probably take turns doing it.
On weekends, I’d like to read or listen to music together, or, if we’re in the mood, go for a walk.
Unique nicknames, maybe little inside jokes, or ways that only he calls you
His love language: quality time
Do whatever you want, but do it together
Just knowing that you’re there, close by, in the same room, gives him a feeling he can’t explain, but he loves it
He likes the idea that your routines mesh
One of his favorite moments is doing their nighttime routine together: getting out of the shower, doing their skincare while the other brushes their teeth, waiting for you in bed, and chatting a bit before falling asleep side by side
He’d give you meaningful gifts every now and then, like a dress you saw in a store window, or your favorite snack whenever he goes to the grocery store
He’ll choose dates with interesting activities
He likes to be constantly learning new things
Arguments are almost nonexistent in his marriage
He talks things through calmly
He hates arguing, especially with you.
He’s a bit jealous, but he’s very discreet.
He’s the type who watches the situation from a distance with his arms crossed and a subtle frown.
But he doesn’t like to show it or tell you, because sometimes he thinks jealousy is a weakness.
Anyway, you notice it because you know him
It makes you chuckle a little because you find it endearing, and you make it clear to him that he’ll never have to worry—you love him
He’d wait quite a while before considering having children together—it’s a huge responsibility.
Bring up the topic when you feel the time is right and you notice he’s interested in the idea.
Definitely a girl dad—plus, he’s already said he’d like to have a daughter.
Even though he’s been trying, he’s really surprised when he finds out.
He thinks about it a lot, but not out of worry—rather, out of reflection and joy.
A very creative father—the number one hater of iPads.
He’ll read all kinds of things to his kids; he doesn’t believe children should be treated like fools.
I can also see him taking them to various activities so they can find something they’re passionate about.
He’d like to raise curious and independent children.
He always knew he wanted to marry you; he was just waiting for a sign that you were ready, too.
In fact, I could consider an informal proposal—just talking about whether you two want to take the next step.
But Ek would still like to propose himself.
He’d choose a very delicate ring for you.
He’d probably do it by the sea, or at least in a natural setting.
It would all be very private; maybe he’d choose a place that holds special meaning for you.
“I know we’ve already talked about this, but I feel like I still had to say it: Would you like to share our future together? To grow, grow old, wither away, and die—all while continuing to love each other and enjoy each other’s company.”
He cries a little when you say yes, and you see it as he walks away after kissing you.
He may not be very involved in planning the ceremony, but you still decide on several things together.
You opt for an intimate wedding, especially with your closest friends and some family members.
The venue will probably be a beach, but secretly she’d like to have it at an aquarium.
He writes very emotional and meaningful vows, which end up bringing tears to your eyes.
The first dance would be a slow dance, as if only the two of you existed in the whole world.
You’re in no rush—after all, you’re going to share the rest of your lives together, so you don’t mind taking your time with your first dance.
But still, your favorite part of the wedding was sharing that beautiful memory with the people you love.
Your honeymoon would take place at a peaceful and welcoming destination.
I picture you moving into a bright house, with large windows where the sunlight isn't shy about streaming in
lots of plants, and of course, an aquarium
the atmosphere is so peaceful—just walking through the front door can calm any emotions
The two of you divide up the chores however you think is fairest.
The only chore you don’t split is cooking.
If you’re both home, you can be sure you’ll cook together.
Long conversations—you just feel like you can share anything with him.
There’s always room for the other person’s voice.
Your home is a safe haven for both of you.
Sundays when you go out for a walk, laughing softly.
Very sweet, yet classic nicknames
His love language is definitely quality time
He could listen to you talk for hours, and he’s very grateful that you trust him to give you advice and support
He also finds most of his support in you
Low-key dates—he doesn’t like extravagant plans
But he’s willing to give it a try if it’s something you’re really interested in
He never raises his voice during an argument
Conflicts between you two don’t usually last long because you both have good problem-solving skills as a couple
The kind where if you start arguing, you’ve already worked it out within five minutes
He’s quite self-assured, so he doesn’t get very jealous
Simple but meaningful anniversaries
Just being married to you is a gift, so he doesn’t place too much importance on anniversaries
He’s very good at taking care of you when you’re sick; he always knows what to do
He plans to wait a couple of years before having children.
He’d like to have two children—no more, no less.
The topic comes up in conversation, and they discuss it together.
He’s very excited about becoming a father once they start trying to conceive.
When they succeed, he simply can’t contain his joy; he runs to hug you and lift you up.
He’s an extremely understanding father.
He never gets nervous in high-pressure situations.
He always seems to understand what’s going on with the baby—you really don’t know how he does it.
He’s the type who gets very emotional at graduations or birthdays because of how much his children have grown.
He’s also very helpful with them; they know they can count on their dad in any situation.
He doesn't really wait too long to propose to you; he doesn't believe that time determines whether someone is right for him.
He gets indecisive and asks for help choosing the ring.
He’d make a fun proposal.
Maybe he’d decorate a spot with candles or warm lights.
He’d take you there after a date, and then he’d ask you.
He gives an impromptu speech—he realizes in the moment that he can’t just get down on one knee and ask you.
That’s not enough for you.
“Would you grant me the honor of continuing to enjoy your company for the rest of my life? Of continuing to be each other’s biggest headache, while still loving one another? Because I love you more than anything in the universe, and I doubt I’ll ever feel this way about anyone else again.”
He can’t stop smiling when you say yes, unable to believe it.
“Seriously? You really want to marry me?” he asks, as if in shock.
They're really excited about the planning.
They're doing it together.
They've decided on a big wedding, in a garden or a ballroom.
Very beautiful vows, with a few jokes slipped in to lighten the mood
A very tender first dance, both gazing into each other’s eyes, with a few laughs
They’ve never been happier or more in love
Both feel like they could stay in that moment forever
Still, their favorite part was the reception
The two of you had a wedding that was a lot of fun, yet also tender and warm.
The love between you two really shines through in the way you look at each other, the guests say—even from the farthest seats.
Modern rings, yet timeless as well.
An adventurous honeymoon—perhaps just like Jaehyun—with a variety of scenery and experiences.
They move relatively quickly.
A modern apartment, close to downtown.
The decor is comfortable and aesthetically simple, but with touches of color and fun.
He helps with everything; they don’t have a clear division of labor
They simply have a to-do list, and each does what they can
Very experimental cooking: he follows several online recipe sites and never misses a chance to try the most interesting ones
It doesn’t always turn out right
A home filled with music; they’re always listening to new artists
On their dates, they visit music stores and check out what catches their eye
I can picture him having a record collection on the living room wall
He’s always suggesting activities—he just never gets tired of living with you; he’s just so much fun
Sundays away from home—he likes to break out of the routine
Still, they end up in the late evening lying in bed, leaning against each other and stroking each other’s hair
A thousand nicknames: a different one every day
There are just so many—why settle for just a couple?
Their language of love is expressed through quality time and physical contact
He’s almost always very playful
Lots of dates: each one very different from the others
He loves trying everything with you; he’s quite the adventurous type
Arguments aren’t common, but sometimes the two of you clash
You always make up quickly—you just can’t stay mad at each other
He’s jealous in an innocent way; he rarely admits it
He loves you so much—he knows you’re amazing and beautiful—but he doesn’t understand why people approach you. Don’t they see you’re with him?
He celebrates every anniversary: first kiss, the day you met, the day you became a couple, your wedding day, your first date
If you’re not feeling well—whether you’re sick or in a bad mood—he always makes you laugh to cheer you up
He never falls asleep without giving you a hug first
But he ends up sprawled all over the bed as soon as he drifts off to sleep
I wouldn't wait too long; he wants to have kids while he's still relatively young.
He sees fatherhood as something really fun, but without downplaying the responsibility.
He might want two or three children.
He brings up the topic quickly, enthusiastically.
Still, you decide to wait a while and enjoy married life a bit.
When you find out you’re pregnant, you run to tell him.
He’s the type who talks to your belly a lot during the pregnancy.
He’s a tremendously fun dad.
His kids love him because he’s always right there with them in everything.
He’s willing to jump on the trampoline with them or do experiments with stuff from the kitchen.
No matter what his kids want to do, he’s always there to join them.
But that also helps him build a strong bond with them.
His kids tell him, “Don’t tell Mom, but…”
He always ends up telling you—they’re a team, and they both want what’s best for their little ones
You make up a very close-knit and adventurous family
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