high five

Stop letting people who do so little for you control so much of your mind and emotions.

“Apply for that job. Date that person. Buy that plane ticket. Move to that city. Do all the things that scare you, because they’re worth it.”

I don’t miss him anymore. Most of the time, anyway. I want to. I wish I could but unfortunately, it’s true: time does heal. It will do so whether you like it or not, and there’s nothing anyone can do about it. If you’re not careful, time will take away everything that ever hurt you, everything you have lost, and replace it with knowledge. Time is a machine: it will convert your pain into experience… It will force you to move on and you will not have a choice in the matter.

Du kannst nicht einfach einen anderen Menschen aus mir machen und dann abhauen.

“I think it’s very healthy to spend time alone. You need to know how to be alone and not be defined by another person.”

There’s so much more to life than what you’re feeling now.