Yes, they matter, but so do you. Yes, they deserve kindness, but so do you. Yes, their needs matter, but so do yours. Not because of anything you have or haven't done. Not because of anything you can do or will do. But because you are you, and you exist. Not at some indefinite time in the future. Not after you leave this Earth for whatever's next. Not after you lose those last 10 lbs. Not after you can fit into the jeans you wore in 9th grade. Not after you get into a relationship, or get married. Not after you earn 6 or 7 figures a year. Not after you get a "Real Job." Not after you graduate. Not after you retire. Not after you have a child. Not after you've healed from your trauma. Not after you've given up smoking, drinking, or whatever else. Not after you win an award. Not after you own a house. Not after any other milestone or achievement you can think of. Now. Right now. Right here.
