what the hell, sure

I have heard of black people warning their kids that the race of a police officer is cop and you should not expect solidarity from them. The same applies to other types of minorities.

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"The fact that socialization is a specious argument became obvious to me during an exchange I had with a trans-woman-exclusionist who insisted that my being raised male was the sole reason in her mind for me to be disqualified from entering women-only spaces. So I asked her if she was open to allowing trans women who are anatomically male but who have been socialized female — something that’s not all that uncommon for MTF children these days. She admitted to having concerns about their attending. Then, I asked how she would feel about a person who was born female yet raised male against her will, and who, after a lifetime of pretending to be male in order to survive, finally reclaimed her female identity upon reaching adulthood. After being confronted with this scenario, the woman conceded that she would be inclined to let this person enter women-only space, thus demonstrating that her argument about male socialization was really an argument about biology after all. In fact, after being pressed a bit further, she admitted that the scenario of a young girl who was forced against her will into boyhood made her realize how traumatic and dehumanizing male socialization could be for someone who was female-identified. This, of course, is exactly how many trans women experience their own childhoods."

This is probably a good way to get myself blocked by people, but I have such a problem with how normalized it's become for fanartists to have a Patreon and lock so much of their art behind a paywall. It's not about copyright infringement. Like whatever, I don't care about that. It's about the fact that it goes against what fandom is supposed to be about. It takes something that's supposed to be about freely sharing and turns it into a business proposition. Fandom is supposed to be a gift economy, where we do this for the community and social bonds it brings, where we give generously with no expectation of getting compensated for it.

#I have been wanting to talk about this for AGES#this is actually the first and only fandom where ive actually felt this issue so prevalently#bc what do u mean last year we were number 2 on ao3 for posting SO MANY FICS (all of which are free) literally thousands upon thousands#but we have what? 5 well known fanartist who have 97% of their work behind a paywall on patreon#just because its legally allowed، doesn't mean it aligns with what fandoms have always stood for#I would never even want to make money from fics even if I thought my writing was worth paying for. i dont even lock them only for ao3 users#ai farmers be damned. id rather keep my work accessible. they've already scraped off most of our shit to train ai anyway#but the way most of the fanart in this fandom is on patreon has always left a bad taste in my mouth#sell stickers. prints. pins. posters. but id never pay to LOOK at fanart even if i had the means to spend that kinda money#feel free to block me for this <3