Pick a Card: What affect do you have on your crush / partner / person of interest? 💎
Pick a pile, from left to right.
In this reading, we are uncovering the raw impact of your presence on your crush, boyfriend, partner or person of interest (This can also be your future spouse, your celebrity crush or a person that you might meet in the future).
We will explore, what happens to their heart rate when you walk into the room? How does their body react when you are standing right next to them? What is that sudden, secret thrill they feel inside when you enter their line of sight? How they act around you?
They keep their distance, but it’s not out of dislike. It’s actually because your presence throws them off balance. They get afraid that they might lose their composure. There could be difference in the way you both live your life, could be cultural or religious. Because of this, they view you through a rigid lens. To them, you represent a totally unfamiliar world. They aren't used to your specific mannerisms, your way of speaking, or how you handle situations.
Whenever you are around, this contrast disarms them. They stay back simply because they are afraid of losing their usual self-control around you. Honestly, it feels like they view you as a sort of mystic or a magician who can cast a spell on them. It feels like they’re convinced that if they let their guard down, they would willingly abandon their home, their wealth, and their entire identity just to be with you.
That is why they step so carefully around you. They actively shield themselves from experiencing who you are. They know that if they allow you to influence them even a tiny bit, they will completely lose the game. It’s like you’ve wrapped them in this beautiful, swirling fog, a haze, kind of like Aphrodite rising out of the ocean foam. To them, you’re this beautiful enigma that they just can't seem to pin down or fully understand.
And the coolest part? The huge gap between your two worlds isn't keeping them away. All those differences are exactly what's pulling them in towards you. I'm telling you, you have them completely fascinated.
Look, a huge reason they keep their distance is pure gossip, the social panic. They know that being seen with you would make rumours spread like wildfire. For someone with their traditional background, maintaining their reputation and the respect of their peers is everything—it’s what sustains them.
But I won't deny it, Pile 1, they secretly admire you. Everything that makes you different actually gives them a reason to smile. Your energy is so youthful, lovely, and bubbly, and they honestly feel like your vibe could guide them toward a much happier, more fulfilled life. Their admiration for you won't ever come out in light. They'll do it secretly.
Your person literally has two modes around you: complete silence or speaking at 4x speed with zero punctuation while accidentally insulting your entire lineage. You get what I am trying to say? It's giving major “I don't know how to express my feelings so i'm going to talk at supersonic speed and accidentally pick a fight with you” energy. You short-circuit their brain so bad they lose all their emotional vocabulary and just become a chaotic talking machine. A walking Mercury in retrograde personality.
Ohhhh wait! Hold on. The reason your person acts like a malfunctioning blender? They have it bad for you. But because they can’t find a way to express that physical, magnetic attraction safely, they’re stuck in a total limbo where all that intense energy gets bottled up and squeezed right out of their mouth. It turns into a total disaster of words.
They want to be close to you, but instead, they just end up talking your ear off at a hundred miles an hour. Think of a kid who is so bursting with excitement that they just start running in circles—that is their brain around you. Are you older than them, by any chance? It gives such, black cat and golden retriever trope.
This isn’t how they treat everyone. Not even close. It is with you and you only. You are their exception. When they are around you, everything gets turned up to a ten. They over-exaggerate, they use big words, they make big, dramatic gestures—it’s like they have to amplify their entire existence just to match the frequency of how much they adore you. They amplify everything they do because you amplify them, sweetie.
This is someone who craves intellectual stimulation far more than physical connection. Because of their sharp mind, they often struggle to find a true mental rapport with the people around them. Physically and socially, they might come across as tall, quiet, brooding, and self-sufficient, protecting themselves behind exceptionally high standards and impenetrable boundaries.
But this coldness isn’t inherent. They weren’t born this way. This persona is a fortress built, stone by stone over time. It’s the aftermath of disappointments, harsh breakups, and back-to-back relational trauma.
And then you walk in, like a catalyst. You taste like the version of themselves they thought they buried years ago. You hold up a mirror to the ghost of who they used to be—someone soft, someone who still hoped. You are the proof that not all is rust. This is how they are around you. They feel full of hope. It feels almost holy, like an answer to a prayer they were too tired to even whisper.
They spend hours caught in daydreams of a life where they don't have to be strong anymore, where they can be emotionally naked with someone. They feel like they can cry safely around you. They’ve been a stranger to their own heart for so long. But, just being near you makes them feel within touch of who they really are underneath.
They heavily stalk you. Like, it’s not even a secret at this point. They be dissecting your entire digital footprint. You might post something, then you check your views and they’re just there. They even bring you up in random conversations with people just to fish for info and get the tea on you.
Around you, this person turns into a total kid. They love to tease you and bother you with the little things, smothering you with clever mind games and verbal cues. They are obsessed with having the upper hand. When you're around, they won’t show obvious romantic interest. Instead, they’ll fire random facts or sharp banter at you, just waiting for you to throw a fireball right back.
They will never act interested when you're looking, but believe me—they are incredibly sneaky. They play it completely indifferent when you’re looking, but the second your back is turned, their eyes are all over you. It’s totally self-sabotaging! They expect you to make the move, but they still play it cool because, deep down, they are terrified of being vulnerable.
Honestly, it can get a little annoying. While they have a pure, gentle soul at their core, their obsession with staying in control can make them look arrogant, even narcissistic. But don't let the mask fool you. Inside, they are incredibly soft. They just don't know how to drop their guard, so whenever you're near, they only know how to turn the tension up.
They talk a lot when you are around, turning into a master of conversation just to hook you in and wait for your reply. For example, if you two are hanging out in a group of five, they might be talking to someone else entirely, but they’ll suddenly throw a little gasoline into the mix—saying something provocative just to see if you’ll barge in.
They love to see how your mind works, sizing up your intelligence and your reactions to every little thing they say. And whenever you're nearby, Pile 4, they have this sleek, cheeky grin on their face that gives it all away. Lol. They know exactly what they’re doing. They love the thrill of pulling your strings.
Think back to when you both first met. If they seemed a bit distant, shy, or even borderline rude or cold - don't sweat it, because that was just a cover-up for how they are crushing on you. If you’ve been second-guessing their vibes, consider this your confirmation that the feeling is 100% mutual.
Once the two of you break through this tortuous mental seduction game, you will be watching their entire demeanor completely shift. The moment they get even a tiny hint that you like them back, their body language will be transform. Suddenly, they will be radiating this pure pride whenever you're around—not for themselves, but simply because they are proud of you.
In crowded rooms, your person will be lingering obsessively at your shoulder, positioning their body closer to you. Honestly, if you’ve told a close friend about your crush, ask them to watch you two sometime. Your friend will be noticing that you look like a total celebrity couple. It's the kind of vibe where everything around you stops and everyone will be staring as you two walk by, because your crush will feel so incredibly proud to be seen with you. They will totally show you off. They love to be seen with you. They feel lucky to have you.
I don't know why I'm picking up on this vibe so strongly, but whether this is at school or the office, you both are likely excellent at what you do. When you two finally come together, you are a total powerhouse couple.
You walk into the room and they just go completely still. Their limbs refuse to work. That is how heavy your presence feels to them. Your person freezes in awe, unable to do anything except stare and admire you. They feel hot. Like, literally. You have this ability to rise up their body temperature the moment you step into their space.
They become a literal statue when you're near. They won't make a single movement, they won't say a word. They just stare. You are exactly their type. like, flawlessly. They find you so incredibly hot and physically attractive that it’s almost frustrating for them. You’re everything they want to look at.
I feel like you remind them of someone from their family. And not in a good way. It’s like you talk exactly like their father or have the same specific behaviours as their mother, and it hits a major nerve. They might unresolved trauma at home with their family, so being around you basically trigger all their old wounds. It makes them spiral into wanting total control over their feelings for you.
You destabilize them. You cause this crazy polarization effect where they are constantly bouncing between extreme highs and devastating lows. Somedays they love you, somedays they resent you. You ruin their emotional balance and they have no idea how to handle it.
Cold. Chilly. Aloof. They act like you don't exist. They move with this cool, untouchable nonchalance, completely unbothered by your presence. Like you’re nothing but background noise and they carry on with a certain kind of arrogance—like a king who doesn't need to acknowledge his kingdom. But let me tell you a secret: it’s an act. A beautifully staged lie.
They are acutely aware of you. They know exactly how much space you occupy in the room, and they know what they feel inside. They just know you can never be together, so they carry on like you're a stranger. They pretend. Because staying blind is the only way they know how to survive you. You have no idea how much they’re holding back. Trust me, trying to keep those feelings down? It’s like trying to tame a literal hungry lion. Phew.
You have no idea the impact you have. They feel like they won some kind of lottery just by meeting you. Have you noticed how they change when you’re around? They become softer, more empathetic. Because of you, the way they look at the world has shifted.
Babe, you are a beautiful storm they weren't prepared for. Your person will be in no position to hold your hand. Meeting you will trigger a massive wave of introspection, drifting into a heavy space of self-reflection instead. Yes, you will be forcing them to look in the mirror. They will be realizing just how rare someone like you is, to come by. They will be obsessing over you, mentally and physically, and that level of intensity terrifies them.
It’s an obsession they can’t control. If they could lie their way out of this internal hell, they would. It’s why they’ll either freeze you out or avoid you like a plague. They’d happily deceive themselves just to stop the self-sabotaging thoughts from consuming them. But I’m afraid they are past the point of saving. They can't unsee you, and they can't escape themselves.
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