My Elsanna Haven

These types of jokes rely on a belief that trans women should be grateful to experience misogyny. That misogyny is not something we already deal with every single day. And that misogyny is a mostly harmless if mean activity and not a massive systemic force that gets us raped and murdered. Calling women bitches is not funny and it doesn't become silly just because you're talking about a minority of women, that's ridiculous.

"every trans woman I meet is a bitch" should be a clue in to that maybe the narrator isn't treating trans women respectfully

something something, women you're allowed to abuse. women you're allowed to abuse

@crezth I say this every time I see this, but this art and this song make me relive my years in the closet, make me feel it in my bones. Closeted trans girl feelings, encapsulated in characters who are still important to me, who still reflect feelings of isolation and suffering I felt in the closet. “It gets like a prison in the body I’m living in…” God.

(hoarsely) oh, yeah, yeah. i feel that.

Regretting not transitioning sooner, regretting not to be able to have a childhood where I was... me, while remaining inseparable from the childhood I did have and knowing that starting over would only put me through that pain and confusion again, but wanting the childhood I never had... or only had in fragments...

@crezth I say this every time I see this, but this art and this song make me relive my years in the closet, make me feel it in my bones. Closeted trans girl feelings, encapsulated in characters who are still important to me, who still reflect feelings of isolation and suffering I felt in the closet. "It gets like a prison in the body I'm living in..." God.