When the Starks Venture North of the Wall
A Gingras Family Vacation
I was ecstatic when my parents decided that they would spend the first two weeks of June with me in Mongolia. Add in my sister for (almost) a month and you get a fantastic staycation (for me). After not seeing my family for a year, I was so excited to see them but also a little anxious. Mongolia has become my home, and my school my family. What if they didn’t like it? Mongolia (or at least the countryside where I live) isn’t for everyone. Sure, I would coach all my Mongolian friends thoroughly beforehand in what my family liked (hint: no intestines!) and we would be eating at the restaurants way more often than I do on a much higher budget but still. There’s not a lot to do in Zavkhan. As the dates grew closer, I spent my time talking to my family about what they should pack and talking with my Mongolian khashaa family and friends about what my family would eat.
When the day finally arrived for me to pick them up at the airport in UB, it was a hectic day to say the least. I was training in Darkhan (see previous post), hopped onto a bus at 6pm with all of my stuff, took the four hour bus ride to UB, met up with Melissa and Tyler at the bus station (love you guys!) and went straight to the airport to wait for them to get off their flight. I got there about ten minutes before their plane was set to land. It landed! I ran to the arrivals gate with everyone else and waited. And waited. And waited. Finally, one hour after the plane landed, my family arrived! They were really here! It felt like a dream. After all of the hugs (I missed them so much!!) we loaded them up in the taxi and headed to our hotel. After checking in, it was almost 2 am in the morning. I said goodbye to Tyler (shout out to the best boyfriend for waiting with me at the airport so I wasn’t alone!) and went to sleep.
The next day started our whirlwind in UB. Jetlagged, my family went walking around UB with Melissa, Tyler, and Sarah (the most amazing M-24 ever). We ate all of the food, celebrated my dad’s birthday, did some shopping, and took pictures. The next day, we went to Terelj National Park, a beautiful park (supposedly) 45 km outside of UB. We rented an old Russian mikr (pronounced meeker) which is an old school van circa 1960s. We made our way to the park, stopping to ride camels. At the park, we were taken around to the sites I had requested, including Turtle Rock and the old monastery. Although I was fine with the roads (they were above average Mongolian non-paved roads) my parents were less than impressed (dare I say horrified?) Needless to say, they were both very glad to get back to the hotel (and I was glad they never have to experience something like driving from Tyler’s soum to Mandalgov which is far, far worse). Finally, our last day, we watched some Children’s Day celebrations in the main square. We left SUPER early the next morning for our flight back to Zavkhan. I was anxious to be back at site and show my parents the “real” Mongolia.
Our ten days in Zavkhan flew by, and my parents (and Abbey!) loved it. There were plenty of highlights to the trip, but I will definitely remember:
Cooking food for all 60 of our school workers. It was a combined team effort and although it took 2+ hours to cook, the food was all gone in less than 45 minutes.
Going to the countryside with my khashaa family. We milked goats, took lots of pictures, and even though playing “translator” was a bit stressful at times, I was glad my parents got to see how beautiful my home here really is.
Dad deciding he wanted a particular purple flower to bring home. He attempted to dig one up in front of my school with my teaspoon (not kidding). A bunch of my students gathered to watch and assist in this task that they definitely did not understand hahaha.
Playing cards with Enkhee and her husband Muugii. There are few occasions that both of my parents stay up past 10. This night, they stayed out until 11:30 with no complaints! Hopefully, we will play Mongolian card games in America now!
Tyler spending time with my family. I’m really glad he got to spend time with them. Dating is so weird in Mongolia but at least he met some of my family 10 months into our relationship lol
Spending time with my family. The Gingras family is usually all on the same page (“Ice cream?” “Obviously.”) and it was wonderful to fall back into step with our familiar routines. I’ve missed being around the people I love most in the world. Phone calls, skype, and face time is nothing compared to real life!
But sadly, the time went by too quickly and all too soon I was driving my parents back to the airport. We ended up saying a quick goodbye because my ride into town wasn’t sticking around (there aren’t many rides when the airport is 45 minutes away). I cried most of the way back into town, to the alarm of my CP’s husband. It wasn’t any easier saying goodbye a second time around, but the fear of the unknown was removed from the equation. I have an amazing support system in country, thanks to Tyler, Melissa, Enkhee, Sambuu and everyone else in Zavkhan. I also have an amazing support system in America, one that understands a little bit better what “ger life” is truly like. I feel so fortunate that the two halves of my life were briefly able to come together. My family was able to experience everything I love about Mongolia: the generosity and kindness of the Mongolian people, the natural beauty of the Mongolian landscape, and the simplicity of life here. My Mongolian friends and family were hopefully able to get a better idea of how an American family acts (or at least, a better understanding of how different Americans within a family act!).
Thank you, Mom, Dad, and Abbey, for not only finding the time for this trip in your busy summer, but also for being flexible when Mongolia happened. I know those plane tickets weren’t cheap and that the trip over certainly wasn’t easy but I honestly can’t fully express how much your trip meant to me. I love you all so much. Thank you.
No trip to UB is complete without a selfie with CK!
Mongolian camels are the best.
We played all of the cards. Grandma would be proud.
Enkhee supervising Abbey to ensure a Proper Mongolian potato salad is made.
At the local monastery- my home is WAY in the back to the left of that mountain!
So strong. He must workout or something.
Everyone loves baby goats :)
Card games with my favorite Mongolian couple :)