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It bugs me when people are unnecessarily mean. Like, you didn’t have to make that comment. You could have just kept your mouth shut and left that person not feeling bad about themselves. What do you gain from making someone else feel like shit? Nothing of substance. Maybe a fleeting moment of power but that’s gone as soon as it comes so why? There’s enough unhappiness in the world without you adding to it.

The only people who get upset when you set boundaries are the ones who benefited from you having none.

That’s why they perceive it as a personal attack— because your boundary encroaches on space they’re used to owning: eg, yours.

i wish i met some people a little earlier, some a little later & some never at all.

remember that ride or die does not mean continue to get mistreated.