LONDON SUGAR BOY

Let it rain money...

Hanging out in Chelsea (London) at my favourite members club, full of wealthy and successful gentlemen is my idea of a fun weekend. I have met many SD/POT’s, a few looking for a mutual beneficial arrangement. I am more than happy to oblige to that request.

I ended up eye fucking this 40 something gentleman, he had SD written all over his face. So we got chatting, there was so much chemistry. Let’s call him Duke, because he reminded me of a Lord of a manor.

So after texting and calling one another, we decided to set a date to meet for dinner at Nobu. Waiting for the weekend to come, so I can finally go on a first date with this handsome man excited me.

I spent the day getting groomed, I looked and felt a billion dollars. There was nothing that was going to ruin my vibe.

He sent his driver to pick me up in this beautiful black Rolls-Royce, the driver opened the door and the people waiting in the queue for a nightclub next door turned and stared, I pouted my way in like you do.

This is when this dream date turn into a nightmare.

I wait for him for over 20 minutes and nothing. I text him ‘thank you for picking me up, when do you get here?’. I am waiting in the lobby like an idiot, finally he shows up looking dashing and is somewhat apologetic.

We walk in and he points to this table with 2 guys already seated, enjoying drinks and laughing away. He takes me over to their table and says look my friends are here OMG. At this point I’m like WTF, he acts like he just bumped into them, when it was all planned.

The 2 guys mood changed the second they saw me, they were super unfriendly and bitchy, it was so awkward. They asked so are you guys on a date, he was like ‘NO, we just friends’. I gave him this really bitch stare. We order food and these guys are super bragging and leaving me out the conversation on purpose and being total rich brats.

I got to the point where I was ordering cocktails like no tomorrow, and eating this good food. I text my friend ‘SOS’, he was out in SoHo doing the most.

Duke decides to touch me up under the table inappropriately, I grab his hands off me. At this point there is no chemistry left and I was massively turned off. I was so over these over privileged dogs, I just eye rolled at them and yawned a few times. I’m bored out of my mind.

I downed another Bloody Mary, I am pretty tipsy at this point. I decided to excuse myself for a cigarette break, I don’t even smoke..

I get an Uber the fuck out of there and head to Soho, I am not wasting this outfit and all this effort for nothing. I ended up having an amazing night partying the night away with my friends regardless.

He did text me to ask if I had left. I sent him a lengthy message, giving him some advice and warning him never to touch someone sexually without their permission. I blocked his number and never looked back.

The moral of the story is to know your worth. Never put up with sexual abuse, these rich folk think they can do what they like, due to wealth and power. It is so important to keep your dignity, morals, values and keep your head held high at all times.

Thank you for your kind words - yes I agree with you 15 is way too young for this, trust me you will get used and abused. No harm in doing research, sugaring is not an easy way out or money flowing straight away, it’s a very tough, competitive game and not for everybody.

You have to be smart, mentally strong, ambition and willing to put in the work. The only work you should be focusing on is your school work and getting an education.

⬆️ really good read, goals AF

As one of the Tumblr SB OG’s I’m happy to be back in 2018, with lots of stories, drama and advice from my journey. Sorry for the lack updates I was in a relationship and had to leave the bowl.

I am now single, living London and ready to return to the sugar bowl in 2018.

I am looking forward to reconnecting with you guys and meeting new sugar friends this years.

Happy New Years xoxo

Traveling is on the agenda for 2016, starting with Los Angeles this coming Saturday. I’m in the U.S.A for 3 months then Australia. It’s time to take the sugar hustle global.

I would love to meet you guys, would be so much fun. PM if you are in L.A.

This is one of the reasons why I don’t share on here anymore.. I don’t want to influence people like you.

It breaks my heart to see someone very young as you wanting this so called ‘glamorous life’. 14 is crazy young, you will get used and abused and you will regret this. This is not easy money at all and a lot is involved and it is extremely dangerous.

- Take sugaring more seriously and put in the work - Hustle my A$$ off - Start my own online business - Get a better job in London - Move to London (a nice apartment all paid for would be nice) - I would like a pet (Pug dog) - Earn up to £5-10k a month - Become a spoilt boyfriend - Try freestyling - Go on a couple of holidays (LA, Australia and Dubai) - Get Veneers/teeth whitening - Have monthly facials and anti-ageing treatments (Botox) and get my fillers topped up. - Get filler injected under my eyes to help get rid of my dark circles. - Get a professional chemical peel (TCA) done - Get a personal trainer and work out regularly - Eat organic - Buy a nice car (BMW/Audi) - A new MacBook Pro - Designer wardrobe (Givenchy, Alexander McQueen, Lanvin, Saint Laurent etc) - New man bags (Cèline luggage, Balenciaga and Givenchy) - Fab collection of shoes (Christian Louboutins, Givenchy high tops, Jimmy Choo) - Fab accessories (Cartier love bracelet in rose gold and silver/some nice watches) - Save at least £20k by the end of the year - Give back to those in need (charity work) - Always go with my gut instinct - Make some sugar friends - Share my journey with all you lovely cupcakes.

As a fashionista with a love for all things fashion/style, I thought I would do a post on what to wear for sugar dates. I know many girls struggle to put something together and are in need of some inspiration. I hope all your POTS will be taking you out to dine at some of the finest restaurants and bars in the city. First impressions do indeed count, so looking well put together is a must. This post will hopefully save someone and inspire you all.

Some of my favourite date looks:

Remember to keep it simple and classy.

Interesting watch for all you bored SB’s in need of some motivation..

I don’t know how I feel about the first girl, she is either lying about the no sex rule or there are guys out there that are okay with zero intermancy.