Aug 7, 2024
Comphet is not a extrictly lesbian experience
Comphet is a experience created by heteronormativity which states cisheterosexuality being the "norm" or the "right thing to do", Everything who doesn't get close to this norm is "wrong"
You can be Bisexual, Gay, Trans, NB, etc and still have comphet
Heterosexuality is more an institute more than a sexuality, paraphrasing Adrienne Rich postulate in the essay "Compulsory heterosexuality and lesbian existence" (1980)
I think the reason that comphet relates more with lesbians is because as little girls/AFABs is teached us that man is the center of our lives and that's why most of us have it
Still, remember, if you have comphet, you are still valid ✨
