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✨I don’t know who needs to hear this, but you are allowed to be happy✨

summer is fun and romantic in theory but for us sweaty bitches it just isn’t realistic

@ everyone who went through a period of having no friends, who ate alone, who had a point in their life where they were too embarrassed to tell their parents they had no one to play with after school: I love you. I know it hurts and I know it’s hard but it’s not your fault. Things will grow and change. You will find people who you click with and they will love you too. You deserve positive friendship relationships just like anyone else. And if you’re still going through this phase, you’re strong, and things will change for you too. You are not alone, there are people experiencing the same thing you are, find them, you deserve positivity and companionship. Keep your head up.

It gets better. Because you’re not unloveable. Kids are mean or standoffish for lots of reasons, and your experiences as a kid don’t determine your worth, then or now. School can be claustrophobic and cliquey, and it can be hard to understand why things don’t always work out, but the world is vast, and there are so many people out there that you have yet to meet! You’re going to meet lots of new people in life, and there will be people out there who will love spending time with you. It’s OK if you’re sad or angry about it, and it’s OK if it takes time to deal with it, or if it takes time for you to work through how it made you feel. But life is full of change and new people and exciting things for you.