Aether

STOP TREATING MANIFESTATION LIKE IT'S SOMETHING YOU CAN FAIL. well, new fucking flash IT'S NOT.

it doesn't matter whether you affirm for 10k, whether you're spiralling, whether you don't even believe in your affirmation, whether you're just scripting, whether you have messy circumstances, you don't even have to lift a fucking finger and YOU STILL GET EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT. just be stubborn about it.

IT'S EITHER YOU HAVE IT OR YOU DON'T, as simple as that.

pleaseeeee, don't make a manifestation a choir. DO NOT try to find new & “faster” technique everytime you're spiraling, just choose one that makes you feel comfortable and stick with it.

BECAUSE ALL OF THOSE TECHNIQUES HAVE THE SAME PURPOSE, TO REMIND YOU THAT YOU ALREADY HAVE EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT.

IN THE END, IT'S NOT ABOUT THE TECHNIQUES. IT'S ALL *YOU*. YOU ARE THE POWER = THE POWER IS WITHIN YOU, CAUSE REMEMBER, NOTHING IS OUTSIDE OF YOU.

I don't know why but almost no one talks about "having it all" and "faking it until you make it" mindset can be dangerous. no, it's not about delusions. It's about being stuck in the same loop over and over again.

You "persist". You have nothing in 3D. everyone's telling you how 3D doesn't matter, because well why would it be. You're trying to tell yourself that your 3D doesn't matter and the cockroaches or unpaying bills or chronic illnesses are TOTALLY don't affect you. You bottle up your emotions. you crash out. You think something is wrong with you. You start over. And loop goes and goes and goes and goes.

No, it is not you. No, you don't need to "lock in" and "ignore it all" or "let your old self die" or all that shit. Are we here to live like we want or to suffer endlessly until something will "click"???

Assumption can't be stronger or harder. My 10 hours "i am blonde" saturation will be the same as my 10 minutes assumptions "i am blonde. huh" or "my hair is getting blonde. damn".

3D is the mirror. You DO NOT beg the mirror to do your makeup for you. You do it, and then it's INSTANTLY showing what you have. That's basically all the LOA you need. Get creative with methods, shit, other things, but DO NOT MAKE IT A CHORE.

You click on anything that says,

"Fastest way to manifest", "my fool proof method to get what you want", "Manifest instantly with this one thing"

You are consuming constantly.

You keep asking, "When? Why isn't it here yet? How much longer do I have to wait?"

You feel insecure when others get what you don't have yet and come looking for external validation.

You have a do or die mentality. Pushing yourself until you mentally cannot anymore.

You also do not understand the mechanism and basic concept of manifesting.

How do you change that?

By building confidence in your abilities. Train yourself.

Start small. Everyday, manifest one small thing.

Once that's easy, move onto bigger things.

Once that becomes normal, move onto abstract things: messing with time, spawning things out of thin air.

You can do anything with this. You do not need to enter the void or listen to bilateral beats or whatever is currently the trend.

Oh my god, yes!! I actually have a funny experience about this.

So, when I had just started seeing my fiancé, there was this one friend of his. I assumed we would get along well because I was visiting him in his country and did not know many people there yet. I had friends there, but they lived in a completely different state, so I thought it would be nice to make new friends in his circle.

Every one of his friends was lovely except this one girl. She just had a very nasty energy about her, but I brushed the feeling aside because I thought I was overreacting. I did not say anything to my fiancé because I did not want to be the girlfriend creating tension between childhood friends.

That night, she kept watching him take care of me, making sure I was okay, getting me drinks, checking in on me, etc. Eventually, a few of the guys left to get something, and after making sure I was alright, my fiancé left too.

So now I was sitting with her and a few other girls, just casually talking, when she suddenly starts going on about how she had known my fiancé all her life, had seen him naked, and all sorts of things you absolutely do not say to someone's partner unless you are trying to prove something.

I just smiled politely while internally wanting the floor to swallow me whole. The other girls kept trying to shut her up, but she would not stop.

Then suddenly she asks:

“Is it the same size?”

I almost spat out my soda.

I stared at her like “WHAT???”

She started laughing like a maniac. I assumed she was drunk and honestly left not long after that.

When we got home, I finally told my fiancé what happened and he was mortified. Completely embarrassed. He assured me she was just trying to stir the pot, which I already knew. I trusted this man with my life.

He cut her off immediately because no sane person would tolerate that level of disrespect.

But she did not give up.

She started showing up EVERYWHERE. Literally everywhere we went, she was somehow there. It got so bad that we started having dates at home because every time she saw us, she would cry dramatically in public, fall to her knees apologizing, beg him to take her back, etc.

It genuinely looked like SHE was the girlfriend and I was the other woman😭

I almost felt bad for her at one point, but I could also see how stressed my fiancé was getting.

So eventually I got fed up and started affirming:

“We do not know anyone by that name.”

“She does not exist in our reality.”

And then I just left it alone.

For three days, I did not check anything because I knew I was uncertain and would probably spiral if I looked for evidence.

A week passed.

We started going out again, and I realized we had not seen her even once.

So one day I casually brought her up to one of the girls.

She looked at me confused and said:

“Who?”

I laughed because I thought she was joking.

She was not.

I asked a few other people. Same reaction.

Even my fiancé looked confused.

Apparently, no one by that name had ever existed in their friend group.

And the weirdest part? I knew exactly where her house was because she used to rush out every time she saw my fiancé.

The house no longer existed either.

It was literally a public library.

Even the pictures disappeared.

I swear the whole thing felt like waking up from an incredibly elaborate dream.

To this day, I still have no clue what exactly happened, but honestly… I am not complaining.

Did I shift? Did I somehow remember her house incorrectly? I honestly do not know.

hii! I actually recommend checking out the full post I wrote about how I started mastering the Law of Assumption and shifting (honestly I feel like they're the exact same thing anyway!).

But to answer you directly: I shift on command now simply because I know my intention is enough. I don’t overthink it anymore. I just assume that if I say I’m waking up in my dr, then that’s it.

If you want to get to this point, here is my best advice:

Start assuming right now that you already are someone who can shift on command. Pick whatever method feels most fun or comfortable for you or honestly, just make the decision, you don't even have to use a method if you don't want to. They all work anyway, because the power is in you, not the technique. Most importantly, stay grounded in the present. Don't exhaust yourself constantly checking the 3D for signs or proof. Just persist in knowing you already shift on command.

Context necessary:

so when I was deeply religious and indoctrinated to believe everything and anything under the sun about life was sinful except for worship, including music / dancing / drawing, I threw away a lot of my sketchbook drawings and deleted my online drawings of my DR self and OCs and my animations and deleted edits I found on tiktok and deleted my own nostalgic tiktoks that went back to like 2019 tiktoks 💔 all to please god or whatever the fuck they told me I was doing by erasing my identity. I literally became a shell of a human, but whatever

these days, deconstructed, I grieve a part of me that I erased from existence because religion took so much of me and I can't blame the psychosis I was in.. I regret the things I threw away and ruined and destroyed. Vulnerable parts of my childhood and life that I held dear, I was blinded by fear of hell and faith. I can only move from here. So I told myself: "I never deleted it." Referring to my own tiktoks or whatever. Edits, etc. Very lazily affirmed it. I think I'm not very into revision, but for this, I'll give it a shot. Just not now. Don't think I'll go all in yet.

But ....there's this one edit that's been killing me. I LOVED it so much. The audio choice couldn't be found anywhere else either. Tough luck. I remembered deleting it. I remembered going into the trash and permanently deleting it from there too. Gone, for good. To "stop listening to music through edits and dinning", I deleted it. I was so fucked up. I kept searching on tiktok to find the creator but it's an unpopular edit from early 2024, so I was screwed.

Tell me why..... I found it in one of my older Google photos account gallery??? I SWORE I deleted it all. I literally wiped out everything music, art, and my past to "start fresh for God's sake" and I found it!!!! It's just an edit, I know, but it's so crazy. It's revised! If I found this, I'd probably find others too because I affirmed! Even listening to it reminds me of life before religion fucking nerfed me.

loa bitches using the term "woo woo" to describe "delusional" shit will always amaze me. like wow, baby. u made $900k come out of thin air, you revised a sickness with no medical or logical explanation for it outside of the fact that you just assumed it gone, but you're afraid of covering appearance manifestation stories because you don't wanna get into "woo woo" territory? i'm sorry? i'm afraid its too late mama

let's preach that we're god while holding onto the human/ego's limits and concepts to contradict ourselves daily. how does that work?

when "everything is possible" becomes "let's not get delusional..." the moment someone puts belt to ass about their abilities as god.

when it aint just manifesting a job and someone talks about death revision or supernatural shit, suddenly nobody stands by their beliefs, if they actually were their beliefs.

And other than wanting to shift just to parallel reality to change things the idea of shifting does entertain me a lot especially after reading posts of "master shifters" who have apparently been shifting for thousands of years like kinda excites me if it's real there are infinite possibilities I can just experience everything in life live in the other corner of the world as football player (I hate sports lol) or be in space as an astronaut lol or become a child again. But also scares/gives me anxiety will I be bored of too much living? Like you said you don't really want to explore or become a master but does this idea entertain you too? Living more than one life?

oh and any suggestions or advice for calming my anxiety when trying to shift even though well you feel it yourself just asking :)

I have spoken about SATS before.

I do think sats and void overlap in certain aspects. To me, both involve altered states of awareness and reduced attachment to external sensory input, although different people interpret and experience them differently.

It can get confusing because different practices and traditions use different terminology for similar experiences. But ultimately, most of these states are approached through some form of meditative or deeply relaxed awareness.

Personally, living too many lives sounds exhausting to me. That is too many memories, too many lifetimes, and too many people I would grow emotionally attached to. This life alone can already feel overwhelming sometimes.

I genuinely think people who shift constantly are badasses 😭 I am just not sure if I personally want to be actively involved in that kind of practice long term, especially when my current life already fulfills me in many ways.

As for advice, I'd say ease into the idea. Normalise the experience. Reassure yourself that it is safe and possible.

BELIEF ISN'T NECESSARY. You can manifest through disbelief AND you can manifest through any emotion. The whole point isn't to believe. It's that anything is possible and you WILL get exactly what you want, even if you don't believe in it. The point is that you INTEND for it to happen. Whatever you INTEND to happen in your reality will happen. Your INTENTION is what matters in manifestation. Not the affirmations, not the emotions, not the beliefs.

As long as you intend to get what you want, you're literally all set for the rest of eternity.

So, yes, you can say "two flying barnacles" and manifest an appearance change if the intention behind that phrase was to manifest an appearance change. It literally does NOT matter which words you use to affirm, only the intention matters.

You are in fucking Barbados, stop playing around. Slam the fucking door on anything that says otherwise and PERSIST. Stop changing your mind and discouraging yourself. FFS! Who the fuck is the operant power? You or the 3d? You or your reality? Stop letting something powerless rule over you!!!!!!!

Let me simplify it.

Manifestation is a skill. Just like cooking.

It doesn’t discriminate. It doesn’t moral-police. It doesn’t play favorites. There is no karma involved.

You want something? You have it.

You want something? You get it.

Period.

Just like a cake won’t automatically lose sweetness or disappear because you have diabetes, and just like a steak won’t burn itself because you “don’t deserve” to eat it. There is no judge deciding whether you can or can’t have something. The only person in charge is you.

You control the amount of sugar in the cake.

You decide whether the steak is cooked on high heat or low.

You’re also the one who decides that if the steak is black and charred, it’s burnt.

You came to that conclusion.

There is no entity keeping score. No one checking whether you’ve been naughty or nice. No cosmic authority handing out rewards or punishments. There’s only you.

Let me remind you: You deserve whatever you want; whether you believe it or not. You deserve the partner you want, the life you want, the body you want. No one can stop you. No one will stop you.

So stop overthinking it.

And honestly, why do you think anyone cares if you change your eyes from hazel to purple? And even if there are such people out there, why are you paying attention to them?

Why do you think anyone is out there sabotaging you?

Yes, people consciously or unconsciously project their limiting beliefs. But that has nothing to do with you. People unknowingly reveal their self-imposed limitations while blaming the world or others. But we don’t do that. We don’t relate.

So we move on. We ignore it. Because if it’s not something we agree with or believe in, simply agree to disagree and go about your day.

Do not:

Appeal.

Appease.

Explain.

Let people do what they want.

You’re never trying to manifest anything.

You just want to experience your desires in a way that feels real to you.

And what even is real?

Reality is a construct. A framework someone came up with that a collective agreed to follow. That’s it.

And no—you don’t actually have to follow it.

Society, the world, people love imposing rules. You get to decide whether those rules benefit you or not, and whether you’ll participate.

(And let me be crystal clear before some freak gets ideas: this does not include harming or abusing anyone. If that’s your idea of “power,” get the fuck off my blog. I will never support harm toward innocent people. Go sort yourself out professionally.)

Here’s the truth:

Half your problems lose power the moment you stop giving them attention.

To quote Alison DiLaurentis: “If you ignore it, it will go away.”

Stop dragging yesterday’s newspaper into today, sitting there sipping tea, reading it like scripture, and deciding that’s exactly how today will go because “the paper says so.”

Who the fuck cares about the paper?

The editor? The writer?

Not me.

And definitely not you.

You should be your own reference.

Your own proof.

Your own validation.

You want to see a red car?

Close your eyes. Imagine a red car.

Done. You saw it.

Now what?

“Oh, I can’t visualize.” → Then affirm.

“Oh, I can’t affirm.” → Then visualize.

“I don’t like that.” → Then script.

“That’s too much work.” → At that point I’ll grab your hands, look you dead in the eyes, and ask if you’re even desperate enough for change.

Because let’s be honest.

Methods aren’t the problem.

Techniques aren’t the problem.

Tenses of affirmations aren’t the problem.

You are.

Why do you assume your plan won’t work?

Why do you need a Plan B?

Why do you need a backup?

Why are you expecting failure in a reality you are actively creating?

Why are you entertaining the idea that you’re not powerful enough?

Or not capable enough?

Not allowed to have things work out for you?

Instead, ask yourself this:

Why not me?

Why couldn’t it be me?

Why wouldn’t things work out for me?

Sit with that.

I keep calling you a monarch (trying to stay gender neutral). But it’s time I acknowledge the pressure and isolation that comes with the title.

Of course I know how you feel. I’ve been there. We all have, at some point. The difference between you and those who made it out? They persisted.

You’ll have days where you feel ridiculous. Days where you question everything. But it’s your responsibility to show up for yourself; because you deserve to.

You deserve a better life.

You deserve to have everything you want.

And remember: it’s better to cry about “manifesting instantly" or "everything always working out" than to cry about everything that’s wrong in your life.

Yes, the crown is heavy. The responsibility is heavy.

But you deserve to wear it.

It was easier before, when you didn’t know you had the power.

It’s always easier to just exist. To move with the flow. To complain about not having control instead of taking it. To blame circumstances instead of changing them.

Ignorance is comfortable.

But the moment you recognize the discomfort of living in a reality you don’t like; that’s when a revolution begins.

You overthrow the old power.

You dismantle the old rules.

You replace them with your own.

And now that you know you’re in charge, you don’t get to pretend you’re powerless anymore.

Now you make the decisions.

Even the hard, uncomfortable ones.

Especially those.

You are deciding.

You are not hoping.

You are ruling.

The crown is heavy because power requires responsibility.

Wavering means you're not committed to the identity you're claiming.

You're contradicting yourself in real time.

You affirm, visualize, decide it's done.

Then five minutes later, you react in a way that only makes sense if you don't actually believe any of it.

That's wavering.

You say you have money.

Then you see something you want and think, “I'd buy that if I could”

What do you mean if you could?

You just exposed the assumption you're actually operating from.

You say you're loved.

Then you dissect their reply time.

You say things always work out for you.

Then one inconvenience sends you into analysis mode.

People love dressing this up as “the universe testing them.” It's not. It's cognitive inconsistency.

You're attempting to occupy two identities at once and wondering why nothing feels stable.

One version of you has decided.

The other is still seeking evidence.

And evidence-seeking is just doubt trying to intellectualize itself.

This is also why overconsumption keeps people stuck.

A post here. A success story there. Another affirmation video. Another technique.

At some point, you're no longer reinforcing an identity. You're feeding a dependency.

You're using external content to regulate internal instability. That isn't discipline. It's avoidance.

The same applies to self-concept.

And before someone sends me an ask asking how to "build" one, unless you've somehow transcended self-awareness entirely, you already have a self-concept.

Everyone does.

The issue is incoherence.

Your behaviors, reactions, and thought patterns reveal the identity you've normalized.

Not the one you occasionally affirm when you're feeling inspired.

Wavering happens for three reasons.

You're addicted to proof.

You keep checking because you still believe reality validates identity. It doesn't. Identity filters reality. Not the other way around.

You're still loyal to the familiar version of yourself.

The brain prioritizes predictability. Even when the familiar is restrictive, it feels safer than the unknown. That's conditioning.

You haven't fully decided.

You're entertaining alternatives. Leaving room for negotiation. A decided mind doesn't keep reopening the case.

Now, for the important part.

Every time you react to circumstances as if they hold authority, you're reinforcing the exact identity you're trying to leave behind.

Every spiral rehearses it.

Every check confirms it.

Every moment of hyperanalysis strengthens it.

So stop checking. Stop monitoring.

Stop searching for signs that you're "doing it right."

When something appears to contradict your decision, register it and move on.

Not because you're suppressing reality.

Because you've stopped assigning temporary appearances the power to define you.

This is what discipline actually looks like.

Quiet consistency. No theatrics. No constant monitoring. No internal debate every six minutes.

Just sustained identification.

Wavering does not delay outcomes. It destabilizes you. And instability always expresses itself externally.

Pick the identity.

Commit to it long enough for it to become your psychological baseline.

Because identity is not built through occasional conviction.

It's built through repetition severe enough that contradiction starts feeling unnatural.

And if you waver?

— Correct it.

— Return.

— Continue.

No drama. No self-pity. No making a personality out of inconsistency.