FuckYeah! Ask a Bi!

Hey there,

It can be really hard thinking about tell your friends. It’s scary because you don’t know what they will say. But if they are really your friends and they love you they will be accepting. Even if they don’t quite understand it they will do their best to support you.

I would suggest starting with one close friend and see how they take it, then you can take it as slow as you need to to come out to your other friends, and you will have an ally.

Good luck,

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Hi there,

In my experience you have to show them your interested in them more than just a friend. Sometimes letting it slip that you’re bi helps too. You don’t need to announce it first thing, but maybe if something comes up in conversation you can just drop a hint.

Good luck,

You can be whatever you feel comfortable identifying as. There is a difference between sexual action and sexual orientation. Just because you haven’t dated a girl yet doesn’t mean you can’t be attracted to them. 

It is totally normal. Often times sexuality can be fluid. Which means that your preferences will change over time. And that is perfectly okay. Nothing is wrong with that at all. 

Congratulations! I am so happy for you!!

Hey there,

So talking to your friends about it can be tricky when you aren’t sure what to say. I would first start by choosing one trusted friend and then tell them that you are curious or that you would like some advice. Tell them how and what you are feeling and that you really just need someone to listen and give you support. 

Don’t force anything. Just try to be calm and let things happen. 

If you are interested in being an admin and answering questions for this blog, please submit a small bio to our askbox. We will look over them and accept those we fill fit best. 

It has come to my attention that many of the admins are busy with things, such as school and life, so I think that there should be a few more to help us out. 

Some qualifiers would be first and foremost bisexual, the understanding that everyone is different, the understanding that we cannot identify people for them, and a kind and understanding manner. 

Send in your bios to the askbox and I will look over them. Thanks so much everyone

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Hi there,

As I always say do research. Look up the terms and see if any make sense to you. Also don't worry too much about labels and terms. Just go with what feels write and what makes you feel comfortable. Let things happen on their own if you are unsure.

Hey there,

I'm so glad we could help you out.

I'd say be honest. Just say what you feel and how you feel it. If you have no worries about their acceptance then just be honest, say that you have something to tell them and just say whatever feels right.

Hope that helped.

He there,

So first of all, sexual attraction and romantic attraction can be two completely different things. So in some situations a person can be sexually attracted to two or more genders but not be romantically attracted to two or more genders.

Also, some people who identify as bisexual have a preference. Some are more attracted to women, some to men, but they are still attracted to both, only in different intensities. 

I can't tell you why you are not having crushes on men, your sexuality is your own and no one can tell you what is right or wrong for you. 

I hope this helped a bit, if you have more questions feel free to message us again.

Yes absolutely.

I like to stress this. Sexual orientation is comepletely separate from sexual action. Meaning you can identify as anything without having had any physical or sexual experience.

Hey there,

It is not weird at all. Not everyone wants to or feels the need to come out. It is your sexuality and there is no obligation to come out at any time unless you feel that you want to.