be excellent to each other

we Need to bring back heteroids

cracker barrel.... has fallen

sorry for being so weird it's my first time being alive

NOT sorry for being so weird it’s my ONLY time being alive

you can do whatever you want forever

hell yes. realest shit ever said

Yeah so I've been listening to some real underground stuff....

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i genuinely don’t think you should be allowed to make “i want to fuck that old man/milf/dilf etc” jokes, if you also think someone in their late 20′s dating someone in their early 20′s is “predatory” because i regret to inform you the old man/milf/dilf is going to over 23 years old

love the genre of tumblr posts that start out "DESTROY THE MYTH THAT" followed by something you've never heard any human being say

DESTROY THE MYTH THAT BRUNETTES CAN’T WEAR JEANS

remember when this website took replies away for like. a year with the vague promise of it being replaced with something better or something & then nothing ever happened and one day replies just unceremoniously came back

I saw a clip of a gay man comedian and his setup was how this guy rejected him because he was into more feminine guys and the punchline was “if you’re gay and into feminine guys you might just be straight and in denial” or something like that. And the crowd laughed. Literally we are going backwards

not really sure how im supposed to feel about seeing sfw art of a fat character just existing marked as "mature content". im really tired of attraction to fat people in general being automatically considered some sort of fetish and therefore explicit in every context. it's really depressing that so many seem to think that the "default" is not being attracted to fat bodies, and if you are, it's because you have a kink.

I wish I could tell Redditors that their abusive parent, in all likelihood, did not have a real diagnosable personality disorder and that armchair diagnosing them with a cluster b personality disorder and then villainizing the mentally ill is not helping anyone. What happened to “my dad was an asshole. a fucking bastard. a jerk who hurt me very badly.” why is it now “my father was a malignant narcissist. I was a victim of narcissistic abuse, not just emotional and physical child abuse. he definitely had NPD and that’s why he was so evil. and I know because I read it online”.

There are many people did have abusive and/or neglectful parents who happened to be struggling with a real, tangible, diagnosed mental illness. It can be helpful to look back and think and know “Some of my parent’s behavior was exacerbated by their hoarding disorder, chronic depression, substance use disorder etc etc. That is an explanation but not an excuse. It was their responsibility to protect me, to try to get better and they failed. They did not continue to hurt me because they were unwell but because they were abusive and selfish. I have a genetic and environmental predisposition to develop the same illness and behaviors so I’m hyperaware of my own health and relationship to keep the cycle from repeating.” but that’s not what the whole ‘narcissistic abuse’ community is about. It’s the opposite of introspective and empathetic and mental health conscious and socially aware.