True kindness isn’t people-pleasing by the way, even if people older than you try to make it seem that way. If you’re upset you have the right to express that and you’re allowed to have boundaries that you don’t tear down for anyone by the way. As long as you don’t hurt others on purpose at every opportunity then expressing your negative emotions doesn’t make you an asshole by the way. You can be kind while also having self respect. In fact people pleasing kind of destroys your individuality a little bit to be honest. Like it’s okay in small doses but you’re allowed to have emotions and be flawed and express it even if it upsets other people as long as you’re unapologetically yourself and don’t tear other people down. You deserve self respect. Just a thought
