Fuck it I don't believe in titles

A few months before he passed away in 2003, a 74 year old children’s television host sat down in the same studio where he had filmed 895 episodes over 33 years and recorded one last message. It wasn’t for children. It was for the adults who had grown up watching him.

Fred Rogers hosted Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood on American public television from 1968 to 2001. For over three decades he walked into the same set, changed into a cardigan and sneakers, looked directly into the camera, and spoke to children as if each one of them was the only person in the room. He never raised his voice, never talked down to his audience, and never rushed a single moment.

In that final recording, he looked into the camera one last time and said “I’m just so proud of all of you who have grown up with us. And I know how tough it is some days to look with hope and confidence on the months and years ahead. But I would like to tell you what I often told you when you were much younger. I like you just the way you are.”

applying for a job

communicating in a more efficient/socially acceptable/gramatically correct manner

summarizing texts or ideas in easy and simple to understand language

breaking down basic tasks to easier and more manageable ones

tasks that are soooo easy any baby could do it, and anyone who can't on their own is just a stupid stupid brain-rotten baby /s

idk maybe it's because i actually spend time with people with cognitive/intellectual disabilities or learning disabilities, as well as refugees and second language speakers who are incredibly disadvantaged in their interactions in the west, that i can't take this rhetoric anymore; especially from people who talk a big game about how the barriers they face because of their autism/adhd/anxiety and chronic illness, but then turn around and point and laugh and talk nastily about folks who for some reason or another struggle with communication, executive function, understanding/comprehension (whether in reading or writing or simple cognition of the thing at hand) and more.

applying for a job

communicating in a more efficient/socially acceptable/gramatically correct manner

summarizing texts or ideas in easy and simple to understand language

breaking down basic tasks to easier and more manageable ones

tasks that are soooo easy any baby could do it, and anyone who can't on their own is just a stupid stupid brain-rotten baby /s

idk maybe it's because i actually spend time with people with cognitive/intellectual disabilities or learning disabilities, as well as refugees and second language speakers who are incredibly disadvantaged in their interactions in the west, that i can't take this rhetoric anymore; especially from people who talk a big game about how the barriers they face because of their autism/adhd/anxiety and chronic illness, but then turn around and point and laugh and talk nastily about folks who for some reason or another struggle with communication, executive function, understanding/comprehension (whether in reading or writing or simple cognition of the thing at hand) and more.

Keep in ming that this is not me shaming you, I know you have your reasons, folks. This is just a guy who enjoys clean spaces asking that you start learning now.

Here’s what I suggest as an adult who has lived with other adults who didn’t have housekeeping skills:

First and foremost, learn about all the places in your house that need to be cleaned and understand how often they should be cleaned. the American Cleaning Institute (I guess that’s a thing) has a good article about basic cleaning info. Plus this video on cleaning tips is great!

Learn how to do your dishes. HOT water is the only way to clean your dishes.

Learn how to clean your shower head, especially if you live in a place with hard water. Same goes for your sinks.

Learn how to do your laundry correctly. Even without the whole “separating whites and colors” thing, there are things you need to learn about washing your clothes. Learn what the tags mean, too.

Also, you don’t have to use fabric softener and you shouldn’t use it on towels or any fabric meant to absorb. (Learn about laundromats) And please learn how to clean out your dryer vent, it’s a safety hazard!

Get a disinfecting cleaner for your high-touch areas, especially the gross ones like the bathroom. Just because it doesn’t look dirty, doesn’t mean it’s clean!

Learn how to sweep, mop, and vacuum effectively.

You’ll also want to make sure to change out your home’s air filters.

TL;DR, here are some cleaning videos.

How to Clean Everything in Your Bathroom

How to Clean Everything in Your Kitchen

Livingroom Cleaning Routine

How to Clean Everything in Your Bedroom

Favorite Cleaning Book: it helps you work through the emotional side of cleaning (and other care tasks)

Current Favorite Decluttering Method/Concept: it helps you know how much is too much to keep and how to get started when you’re overwhelmed. (having too much stuff makes it incredibly hard to clean/organize.)

Basic Cleaning Skills: this channel is amazing! this man has a special interest in cleaning and cleans people’s spaces who deal nurodivergence that make it hard to clean. he does this for free (or at a deficit because he pays for supplies and dumpsters and transport and such) and does it all with empathy and kindness working With the people as much as people can handle instead of just coming in to “fix” an issue. these videos are a bit different from his usual ones, (the last one’s most like his usual videos) but i find having the sped up cleaning videos with a voiceover can help fill in for body doubling when im too ashamed to bring people into my messy spaces.

Ok, so there are 3 signs that could be used to say that someone is Black, or to represent a Black person. You could use the sign for the color (black) along with the agent marker to represent a person. That looks like this:

You can also sign African American, which isn’t usually used.

The other sign is Black. You’ll notice that in writing, “black” is not capitalized, while “Black” is. This is partially because the sign “Black” is only used by the Black community. In fact, using the sign “Black” when you’re not Black is seen as rude or cultural appropriation! According to Jeremy Lee Stone, a Black Deaf actor, “Black” is a “cultural perspective specific to Black ASL. It is used by those who are proud of their Black identity. While white people can use the sign “black”, they shouldn't use “Black."”

Here’s a gif of a Black signer showing the physical difference:

And here’s a short video going over why the sign is used that way: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=5rcjhXXjNPc&pp=iggCQAE%3D