i'm the goat in this metaphor

Reverse Mulan about a young man who disguises himself as a noblewoman and has to learn how to do passive-agressive politicking at dinner parties.

He does so to dodge the draft

HOW TO BE GOTH IN HEAT WAVE

So much to talk about here, but the concept of empathizing with the people who died in the fucking OceanGate submarine is just so foreign to me. These people truly walk among us? #Amongus #Scary

i do think the negative interpretations of "im probably nonbinary but i have a job right now" are kind of reaching. it's obviously a waste of time to theorize the op's intended meaning, so instead i think it's better to recognize how the phrase can be a useful framing device to criticize how much of a fucking hassle it is to get gendered correctly. "but i have a job" e.g. will face discrimination that could threaten livelihood; e.g. don't have the mental bandwidth to explain gender to others; e.g. don't have the time and energy for the soul-searching necessary to confirm. all three of these are labor issues. yes you could interpret it as "but being nonbinary isn't important enough to worry about", despite that being a blatantly bad-faith read. it's more useful to interpret it as "but being publicly nonbinary requires a lot of social effort that, in many cultural contexts, will create more problems that you can't afford to deal with". like cmon it's a really good jumping off point for productive conversations about queer labor rights

my elderly neighbor is explaining a meme to me and he opened with “so have you ever seen the series of images”

post-canon gero should introduce kinosaki as his husband when he is fem and as his wife when she is masc

Jesus Christ