yer fond a' me lobster, aren't yeh?

I'm coming from the femme side of things. Growing up demi with a sexualized body means you make your intentions very clear but men don't listen either way and then get mad when you say we agreed we were going to get coffee and that was it. Because no matter how clear I am most men will still exhaust every possible dialogue option in the hopes of getting some. So I reached a point where I just played dumb and let them waste their time and money on me because I DID tell them from the start in no unclear terms that sex was never going to be happening between us. So if they still wanted to act a fool, I'd let 'em. Which maybe is why some men think all women are users and gold diggers but like, stfu and listen to women for once and you wouldn't be getting scammed by every intelligent woman and sexy chatbot you try to sleep with.

HOLY SHIT GUYS, I WAS INSPIRED BY THIS POST TO TRY MAKE THE SONG AND YOU WOULD NOT BELIEVE THE SCREAM I SCRUMPT WHEN I DRAGGED THE TRAINING AUDIO OVER THE BACKING TRACK AND IT LINED UP PERFECTLY

"Sewing is a gateway drug to thinking through complex problems. It seems really simple; culturally, we make it women's work. Let me tell you: real sewing at any kind of level of proficiency is a bloody magic trick. Sewing, like mold making, involves mental frames that require one to think inside out and backwards. It requires one to work on an order of operations that is often taking into account the reverse. It's a really, really important skill, and if you learn how to sew, you're mostly on your way to carpentry and welding and sheet metal work. I'm not kidding: these are planar forms meeting under rules and conditions. And if you can make a sleeve work, I swear to God, you could build a house."

reading issues of Cosmopolitan from 2012 like “Or you could talk to him. Or you could talk to him. Maybe you could try talking to him? Or it might help to talk to him. Have you considered talking to him? What if you talked to him? What if you communicated? Have you tried stating your concern to the actual person you are in a relationship with? Maybe you could try talking about the problem—”

I was mainly just reading the horoscopes though.

My sister used to collect cosmogirl magazines ranging from about 1999-2007. In the days before smartphones, I read through all of them before giving all the pictures sharpie emo makeovers.

having to take care of your stupid wrists by not doing your hobby so you can keep doing your hobby

US and it's changed over the years

Closed growing up cuz I barely had any privacy.