lesbibun

living is very extremely worth it and if youre a transgender woman reading this post you should really consider continuing to live

Not to mention that people speculate on the orientation of dead people CONSTANTLY. "Historians will call them good friends" was a meme that got turned into a goddamn song. Why is being transfem different.

we all have that one friend trying to rebuild the world according to their own warped philosophy

plushie world will arive. you will see, you will all see!

nip over to troy, bit of rough and tumble, big horse, bish bash bosh, back home to ithaca. simple as

I like when you click a link and it turns purple its like youre bruising it

really awesome how easy it is for tme queers to be uwu smol beans "cartoons can be for adults too!", but if ur tma engaging in childish interests and behaviors, or even simply showing too much weakness, can end up with you getting called a pedophile

I LOVE TRANS LESBIANISM I LOVE TRANS WOMANHOOD I LOVE T4T I LOVE GIRLS WITH M ON THEIR BIRTH CERTIFICATE LOVING GIRLS CENTER WOMEN IN YOUR LIFE CENTER TRANSGENDER WOMEN IN YOUR LIFE CENTER TRANSGENDER WOMEN WHO REJECT MANHOOD IN ALL FORMS IN YOUR LIFE AAAAA

I have been on multiple dates where they assumed I was transmasc, and was ghosted when they realized I was transfem. I know it happens when I am inexplicably treated with dignity and respect on accident

I've talked to a lot of lesbians, and most assume (because I am butch) that I'm transmasc. Also because I have a deeper voice, a lot of people assume that I'm on testosterone. When they find out I am not, that's where pleasant conversation ends. Queer people are fine with a masculine woman, except when she's transfem.

Happened to me a few times earlier in my transition when I presented more non-binary. Stubble also grew out disgustingly swiftly and contributed to these kinds of misunderstandings. And yeah the amount of people who ghosted me after finding out I was a transfem was all but one of the people with the misconception (and that one still stopped seeing me as a viable romantic partner after realizing)

at some point after I started E, I started getting he/himmed in the same conspicuously-supportive way that I had been getting she/hered. took me a while to figure out that that people were thinking I was transmasc. I didn't understand why they were conspicuously supportive but, when I corrected them to she/her, they'd give me this politely strained smile.

happened to me at a bike mechanic when I was getting my wife's bike fixed. They seemed to intuit me as transmasc until when I had to give my name for their billing system - since we got a free repair and tuneup if something happened in the next few months, they needed to record a name. <Fem name> I offered. "Nah, you can use your real one." "Yes, <fem name.>" (bike mechanic gets moment of realization and starts treating me like I don't know what fucking pedals are, after I've spent the past hour talking shop about bike and electronics repair)