I just wanted everyone to have a reminder that you really need to be suspicious of anyone who says they don’t mind your mental health problems or they think it makes you a “deep” person.

It’s predatory .

I think those women deserve better. I don’t think they’re dirty/wh*res/damaged goods or any other misogynistic garbage. I don’t tie women’s worth to their bodies or how they exercise their sexuality.

I am concerned with the objective consequences of the sex industry. I’m concerned about how many women who are “sex workers”(read prostituted women) are kept reliant on drugs by their pimps and having the money they make taken from them to keep them from getting out, how many of them started being sex trafficked as children and don’t know any other way, how many of them wouldn’t be able to eat without allowing repulsive depraved men to rape them for money. I’m concerned with the fact that behind the scenes of much mainstream porn is girls who had no other choice, who were sexually abused in childhood and never got the help they needed and instead were told their reckless/dangerous hypersexual behavior made them a great fit for porn, who were coerced at a young age and now feel they can’t do anything else. I’m concerned about how much of mainstream porn has been found and proven to be recorded rape, revenge porn, child sexual abuse material and coerced participation.

I’m concerned with the consequences of porn consumption, how men who consume porn are shown to view women as less competent, how men who consumed porn were more likely to SELF-REPORT they would rape a woman if they knew they wouldn’t get in any trouble for it. How men who consume porn begin to consume more and more extreme and violent content(which is real! Real women are being choked, beaten, gagged, punched, and being made to vomit, bleed and cry in this porn) and develop paraphilias they otherwise wouldn’t through porn consumption. How in time they will want to act these things out. This is my concern! I’m not concerned with sexual prudence or your chastity, get fucking real! This is terrifying and it’s really happening.

The fact that opposing this is viewed as extreme is what’s insane. It’s legitimately dystopian that all of the shit happening in porn no one bats a lash at and criticizing it gets you called a prude/sexually repressed/misogynistic. What’s more misogynistic, the trafficking and abuse of women for male entertainment or criticism of said traffickers and abusers? Somehow this is a real question and people are saying the latter! I feel like I’m taking crazy pills ffs!

I’ve actually sat down and listened to previous porn actresses and they can’t say enough how often they were made to do things they didn’t agree to, how much substance abuse was involved, how they needed to be under the influence to even perform. I actually know women who have been prostituted. I know how they got there and I fucking guarantee you they don’t feel “empowered and liberated” I’ve heard from their own mouths that they feel trapped, scared and helpless.

It's funny how the discussion about who should enter which restroom is always directed towards women, it's always that there is one restroom for men and another for everyone else, it's always women who have to risk their comfort and safety for the comfort of others.

“But trans women need to go into women's bathrooms to feel comfortable and validated” You. keep. putting. male. comfort. over. female. comfort. and. safety. You never ask how women feel about this, it is not transphobic for a woman to not feel comfortable with a male in the bathroom, every woman has the right to express herself when her safety and comfort is at risk.

Do you know Dana Rivers ? He's a man pretending to be a woman, or a "trans woman" as you would call him.

He was angry because lesbians did not see him as one of them. So he joined a "trans camp" and him and his buddies used to try and harass the lesbians who enjoyed a feminist music festival called Michfest. There was one lesbian couple who used to go every year. I guess "Dana" maybe thought as you did, that when a woman rejects a man or finds him creepy that makes her a bigot or maybe he thought of trans activists' favourite slogan "terfs graves are gender neutral bathrooms". Anyway he found this lesbian couple's house and entered it. "Dana" beat them up, including their adopted son, using brass knuckles, then he stabbed them dozens of times and if that wasn't enough he shot them. Then he burned the place down, probably trying to cover his tracks. Neighbours heard the gunfires and called the police. When the police arrived, the couple's adopted son ran outside, but the gun shot he had received proved fatal. "Dana" did it because lesbians had no right to reject men and their misogyny, in his mind. This brutal and sadistic triple homicide is now counted as committed by a woman in crime statistics.

In case you were wondering, yes I am using your idiotic "waaawaaa feminazi" message to shine more light on this terrible story. You can whine behind your computer about pronouns all day long, but in the real world it is men who hurt women, not with words, not with tweets, not with memes, not with pronouns but with fists and knives and guns.

PAMELA ANDERSON