finarazak

Hey you. Yes you!

You who read this post and had to fight alone with anything that you dont have encourage to share with others, I hope you are still here. I hope you are okay.

I want you to know that you are loved. There is so many people that care for you and you dont have to fight this alone.

I just want you to know that you are strong enough. How I know it? Because if not, you wont be here reading this post.

Whatever silent battle you are fighting for, I hope you still hold on and please dont give up. Lets win this together because you deserve better! I love you 🤍

It's my 11 year anniversary on Tumblr 🥳

It's my 10 year anniversary on Tumblr 🥳

It been 10 years being here in Tumblr.

Life gets heavy, responsibilities pile up, and sometimes people just disappear—not because they don’t care, but because they’re trying to keep up with everything going on. Work, family, mental health, unexpected struggles—it all takes space. It’s not always about you or the friendship fading; sometimes it’s just about someone needing to step back and breathe. And that pause, even if it feels like distance, can be a sign of someone trying to handle their own chaos while still holding on in their own way.

So instead of feeling hurt or abandoned, I try to hold space for those quiet gaps.

I remind myself that love and friendship don’t always have to look loud or constant to be real. Sometimes people disappear to come back stronger, or to show up differently. And that’s okay. I value the seasons of connection and even the silence because life isn’t always linear, and neither are friendships.

Understanding that helps me be more patient, kinder, and more forgiving—not just of others but of myself too. Because we’re all just doing our best in the middle of everything.

I always thought that it has to be the loneliest thing in the world to do, then eating alone at a restaurant is second.

But I see it now.

I see it clearly now that life is not always about cuddles and holding hands.

That it's not always about the movie dates and the travel goals because most of the time, it's about you finding peace in the simple things that you do.

I eventually learned that life can get so busy that there will be days when you just want to shut everyone out and be with no one but yourself even for just a little while.

I don't know, maybe I'm getting old and becoming less fun of a person to be with. But if this is what peace feels like, hey—I'll take it.

Reading all the positivity post and encourage each other in this community never fail to soft my hear.

When you know how expectation can kill you but still you cant help but put the expectation on people, relationship and almost on everything.

Struggle with expectation really exhausting right?

Sometimes, that past give an effect to your decisions. It's okay.

First of all, learn how to let it go. Not all of your old mistakes made you the worst people in the world. Without knowing, that mistakes made who you are now. Now you know who you want to trust and don't trust people easily, what is bad and what is good for yourself, who you should and should not love. I admit sometimes it might hurt you when you remind that moments. You cant turn back times and you know it, so the only thing to do is don't repeat that same old mistakes because you know the affect of your actions or words. How you react and response now to your past that will determine how your future will be.