hi there, i'm just kind of a person i guess. currently been tamed by twitter (hence why i rounded my pfp which had previously been square. its symbolism you see)
[ID: 1. a blinkie with a smiley face and the words “BORN TO DIE” in flashing red text, in a sharp, messy, pointed font 2. a blinkie with a figure on its hands and knees rapidly slamming its fist on the ground and the words “WORLD IS A FUCK” in the same sharp font 3. a blinkie with the words “Kill Em All 1989” in the same font in red between a bloody knife and chainsaw 4. a blinkie that says “I am trash man” in a plain font on a purple background between two buckets 5. a blinkie that says “410757864530 DEAD COPS” in rainbow-colored text between confetti horns /end ID]
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Having depression is fun because one of the main symptoms is that you want to kill yourself and one of the side effects of the meds is you want to kill yourself but if you at any point even IMPLY you want to kill yourself to your doctors in charge of making you not want to kill yourself, you are forcibly put in "wanting to kill yourself jail".
And I have news that may not surprise you about how "wanting to kill yourself jail" affects your mental state and what it may make you want to do.
If you actually want to help someone with mental health issues, come to their house and wash the dishes in their sink. I promise they have them. This is 1000% more effective than locking them up against their will.
everyone is saying “and biological parents too” which I absolutely agree with but this post is about the sheer helplessly of being a child and having your parent bringing some random guy or lady into your house and having no say over it and your opinions are not taken seriously because you are just a child. so many children are harmed this way and they’re totally powerless to escape the situation or remove the adult from their life.
ppl will parade around disability rights for disabled folks but treat individuals who actually need help and care, patience, and might not contribute much (which is not a moral failing) as an absolute emotional and physical burden and honestly it's just full blown ableism that's hidden under therapy speech and performativity.
from my own experiences as a disabled individual both mentally (mild intellectual disability) and probably physical, it's hard for me to do certain things, I need help. I can't work a job so I mostly draw pictures and get tipped for it. I feel like a burden for it because my mother would treat me that way while trying to be "encouraging" Abt my disabilities.
the world is already cruel towards us so it's even harder dealing with ppl who understand disability but refuse to extend any patience or kindness.
anyway it's ok if ur disabled and don't contribute to capitalism. you are not a burden for needing extra help you matter and deserve the absolutely best.
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okay i read the 'dump your puppygirl' article. i don't like it. I'm going to be a bit of a contrarian and say that I think it has valid points but fails to address the actual question. what it does is villainize a disabled woman, and criticize her for presenting femininity and struggling. i think there are a few questions that the article needs to actually answer to be helpful
What motivates someone like the partner to engage with the puppygirl? why might the partner willingly engage in a dynamic that hurts her, even without external pressures?
Why does the puppygirl act the way that she does? Is she evil? Is she callous? Is this described 'softness' some kind of shield over her manipulative nature, or is there perhaps a series of desires that when followed, results in this dynamic?
What can the partner and the puppygirl do, independently or together, to not re-create this dynamic? Given that most situation don't feature, to my knowledge, someone quite this bad, how can someone recognize when they're being the puppygirl or the partner?
like it's not really controversial to say that by-and-large, trans women are struggling, whether that be emotionally, financially, socially, or whatever. It's also not controversial to say that someone you need to prioritize taking care of yourself over others. And there's a lot of really hard to acquire and valuable skills in recognizing that your needs aren't being met, understanding that you can't take responsibility for someone else's life, and figuring out how to end a relationship in a way that doesn't make you feel guilty forever. But the article doesn't do any of that, it just handwaves all the difficult parts in favor of ragging on this hypothetical puppygirl.
If you are a trans woman interested in dating other trans women it is entirely possible and even likely, that you will at some point, find yourself in a relationship where someone is relying on you beyond your capacity to support them. What do you do then? How do you have that conversation? How do you move on? Is the only way to pretend that your partner is pure evil and pat yourself on the back for escaping? Is that the point of this article? I disagree, obviously, but I don't have answers. It just seems pointlessly cruel to talk about weaponized incompetence in respect to this girl who is disabled and struggling.
It's totally fair to talk about the stress that taking care of someone places on the caretaker. It's totally fair to talk about how trans women are likely to end up in those respective positions - what I think the article lacks is a real look into why these relationships happen and how to actually analyze the distribution of labor. And like that whole article is basically an extended way of saying that the puppygirl is doing gendered violence to her partners, which is not a topic to handle bluntly!!! I'm not even saying it's untrue because I think there are gendered aspects worth unpacking in relational dynamics but its just so tactless to be like "yeah the puppygirl is being all male socialized to everyone!" which is neither a useful nor a widely applicable message!!!!
Going to be honest, I went into the article fully expecting to agree with it and every additional moment I spend thinking on it leaves me a bit more pissed off. It sucks. I don't like it. There's a point to be made and she totally failed to make it because she wrote a hitpiece about disabled girls. Idk. I could talk for hours about how you need to make hard choices about your relationships and kindness isn't always a virtue and how unequal relationships hurt everyone involved and so on and so on and so on and hopefully none of it would involve that kind of unsympathetic portrayal of a disabled trans woman.
the thing is also that "kick your disabled and unemployed gf to the curb" is really shitty advice because most people aren't going to be okay with doing that to someone they care about and the rest are going to be tormented with guilt about it forever
updated the character limit on the blinkie maker! previously 15 characters, you can now attempt to cram a whopping 25 characters on your blinkies!! certain fonts and font sizes WILL cut off. use your best judgement ok?
updated the character limit on the blinkie maker! previously 15 characters, you can now attempt to cram a whopping 25 characters on your blinkies!! certain fonts and font sizes WILL cut off. use your best judgement ok?
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some dudes like to talk a big game about how comedy suffers when people are afraid to offend but man, Mitch Hedberg was a white dude working in the era of peak offensive edgelord and his shit holds the fuck up so while most comedians will never come up with anything as timeless as “if carrots got you drunk, rabbits would be fucked up” they could at least make an effort
Every McDonald’s commercial ends the same way, right? “Prices and participation may vary.” I wanna open a McDonald’s and not participate in anything. I wanna be a stubborn McDonald’s owner. I’ll say “Cheeseburgers? Nope. We got spaghetti! And blankets! We are not affiliated with that clown.”
Every book is a children’s book if the kid can read.
I would like to have a product that was available for three easy payments and one fuckin’ complicated payment. We can’t tell you which payment it is, but one of these payments is gonna be a bitch! The mailman will get shot to death, the envelope will not seal, and the stamp will be in the wrong denomination! Good luck, fucker! That last payment must be made in wampum!
Hey, if you wanna talk to me after the show, I’ll be… fuckin’ surprised.
This shirt is “dry-clean only”… Which means it’s dirty.
One time, this guy handed me a picture of him, he said “Here’s a picture of me when I was younger.” Every picture is of you when you were younger. “Here’s a picture of me when I’m older.” “You son-of-a-bitch! How’d you pull that off? Lemme see that camera… What’s it look like? ”
An escalator can never break, it can only become stairs. You would never see an “Escalator Temporarily Out Of Order” sign, just “Escalator Temporarily Stairs. Sorry for the convenience.
I play golf. I’m not good at golf, I never got good. I never got a hole-in-one. But I did hit a guy. And that’s way more satisfying. You’re supposed to yell “Fore!” but I was too busying mumbling “There ain’t no way that’s gonna hit him.”
When you’re in Hollywood and you’re a comedian, everybody wants you to do other things besides comedy. They say “All right you’re a stand up comedian, can you act? Can you write? Write us a script.” They want me to do things that’s related to comedy, but it’s not comedy. That’s not fair. It’s as though if I was a cook, and I worked my ass off to become a good cook, and they said “All right you’re a cook… can you farm?”
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on twitter i posted a thread of the racist (and other questionable) shit ghost said on their bluesky before they deleted it (without any sort of apology or even acknowledgement)
ill attach screenshots below the read more for those who dont have twitter, as well as extra thoughts i have. here is the link to the mediafire with all the screenshots. wayback machine link to their bluesky (there are impersonator accounts, such as "ghost-and-pal" lacking plural "pals", that is not ghost)
Edit 3/22: Here is the doc about my experience with Ghost. Hopefully this is the last time I need to talk about them publicly. Thank you for listeng
(original tweet photos)
(comment talking abt how their song titled "theres an elite cabal" whatever is a known nazi dogwhistle)
(peoples reaction to the native comments)
(their "my friends abandoned me" claim despite their own channel bio in 2025 disproving it)
(their poor excuse as to why covetous doesnt have a tw and doesnt need it i guess)
(some other misc weird comments)
i do want to add; they are clearly going through some mental shit, but thats not an excuse to act this way. they are 28 years old. this has been a cyclical pattern for over a decade of acting weird online, crying "ableism! its my disorders! this is harassment!" when called out for hurting others, purging accounts to erase evidence, and then disappearing long enough from social media for others to forget. it is not intrinsic to any disorder to be racist and refuse to apologise. if they actually felt bad, why did they delete their bluesky and dodge any accountability? its not parasocial or ableist to call someone out for being fucking weird.
carbon monoxide (part of the team who worked on QA) made two good threads, one talking about ghosts behaviour in regards to mental illness, as well as another talking about different treatment methods, because as long as youre still alive, there is always still hope. ghost comments abt being anti recovery and anti therapy put such a foul taste in my mouth.
there is a reason i have been gone from social media for basically years and havent posted. ive wanted to say something for so long, but i was so fucking scared. i think we all to some extent believed the lie that ghost is the ultimate victim who can do no wrong and any criticism towards them is ableism or harassment. i have more to say but thats what my doc will be for.
common sense dont harass anyone especially ghost (but also dont mistake asking for accountability and an apology as harassment
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