iâm tired of babying grown women who let beauty standards control their entire life. stand up, grow up & get over yourself. enough. you arenât perpetual victims. exercise the autonomy you refuse to acknowledge you have. you can choose to stop this circus anytime. grown ass fucking women acting like helpless victims to the patriarchy and then in the next breath going âCOME WITH ME TO MY BOTOX APPOINTMENTđâ you are traitors and we will never make it out of the patriarchy if personal responsibility canât be taken
like god fucking damn women for centuries fought to have financial and social independence, and we largely achieved that in most countries, just for modern women who have no idea what patriarchy used to do to us to turn around and go âiâm not the problem, blame men for saying i look prettier after a nose jobâ you have everything your foremothers hoped and dreamed for, all that autonomy won through blood and sweat, and you waste it offering your body up to the patriarchy because âsocial pressureâ get the fuck over yourself and stop acting like you have no choice. absolutely pathetic
and whenever people criticize women who get cosmetic procedures done and who enslave themselves to beauty standards itâs always met with âitâs not their fault, itâs the patriarchyâ and i find that to be such a circular, never ending blame game. yes fucking obviously itâs the true fault of the patriarchy but you canât hold a system of social hierarchy accountable because the decisions individuals make constitute said system. and turning it into a chicken or the egg debate does nothing besides shift blame to something that cannot be reckoned with or addressed. stop blaming the patriarchy at large for the individual decisions of fully autonomous women
