Creating the you in your head
Do you fantasise about that prefect whimsical you?
That version in your head that you insert into fandoms and fanfictions, the, its you in the story but a better, more powerful, interesting, developed you. I`ve done that for as long as I can remember, its a form of escapism, and while they do often depend on the fantasy universe of powers, wands, werewolves ect I know you hope and wish and yearn to just be that person too.
I've thought and played with the idea, how to just be that person, whether their adventures, playful, brave, full of friends, opportunity or wit. I`ve yearned for that too and this year, the very end of 2023 and start of 2024 I`ve made a plan to become that person. But it doesn't matter if your doing this 3am tuesday, summer 2029, its only waiting on you, and when ever you start is when you were ready to do so.
Morph into them, act and think and do like that person in your head till their skin is more yours than theirs.
This youtuber has made a wonderful simplified version of what I've been thinking about and its wonderful to follow along as well as a great notion template. But I do recommend to do what I've done and add to it, added just statement section on what this person does this person creates things their proud of, this person has quiet mornings by the window and I`ve made a pinterest board as the way this person dresses is important to them (this will become you). One of the things this person would do is blog, so heres the first.
Everyday when ever your stuck or stagnate, think what would they do right now, sometimes living to the fullest is doing that work youve been putting off because they would've or its getting a nice drink and sitting to plan out that work or collage because thats what they would do.
If your constantly imagining and fantasying in fandoms and other worlds about what youd do or be in them, try make the world you rest in be that person too :)