Ruby Quail

lets simultaneously be something and nothing together

I may end up getting in with this penguin zookeeper, that’s like two degrees of separation with penguins

Ryo Kawakami

the queen of widows bay

"Seasickness" | Widow's Bay 1x07

bicycling

you have to let the tgirl love you back. you have to.

ff13 au where everything is the same except it's an all-female party

yeah so none of these experiences you're describing as "a unique axis of oppression that trans men face" are unique to trans men. trans women experience literally everything you're describing. everything you wrote about trans men being rejected from masculinity & not being treated as "real" men - just replace "women" & "femininity" in all those sentences & you're describing what trans women experience. what you're describing is transphobia, NOT something that trans men uniquely experience. nobody is seriously saying trans men don't experience transphobia & that transphobia isn't a valid form of oppression. they're saying that for transandrophobia to be legitimate as a sociological & structural axis of oppression, there has to be a form of oppression called androphobia or misandry that this transphobia is intersecting with, & there isn't. those cis men (the dominant group) don't hate trans men because they're men - they're not oppressing them for being men. they're not excluding them from manhood for being men. they're doing that because of transphobia. that's how it works. you're doing the exact same thing i'm talking about by saying that it's wrong to say trans men have male privilege - they do have a privilege that trans women don't have, which is the privilege of not being women. YES there's nuance but the baseline you have to understand is that not everything is one to one & it's not fucking personal. these are societal constructs. privilege doesn't care about your nuance. nobody is saying your dumb little life isn't hard. but we can't get anywhere if you obsess over how YOU personally are wronged & refuse to see the big picture from a class standpoint.