an open letter to the bitch that hijacked my roleplay and then deleted it when she was called out for her shitty behavior:
so, i thought i’d have something long to say to you, but i don’t. i’m not going to waste the time. but here are three things i feel need to be said. 1, you had no right to delete spelled. you didn’t put a damn bit of work into that rp, whereas i spend HOURS setting the theme and coding it and writing the pages. it was not yours to delete, and you should have come to me first, whether i was still in it or not, it. was. not. yours. 2, from the begining i had a bad feeling about you, and i should have listened to my gut. you were at the source of every major problem the rp faced, and honestly are why i left instead of trying to balance it and school. and 3, please never join another roleplay of mine again, you will never be welcome.
i admit, i wasn’t perfect, and i had my faults with spelledhqs, it was a learning experience, but folks, when you have a gut feeling LISTEN 👏 TO 👏 IT 👏i want to apologize to everyone hurt by spelledhqs, i know i played a part, and in no way am i excusing that, but the biggest mistake i made was trusting ally, who has blocked me on discord so i can’t send her this message myself.
this is in response to this post here. which happened after i left the rp, but wouldn’t have happened if i had just closed the roleplay instead of trusting a toxic person i fooled myself into thinking was okay. she was manipulative from the start folks, and i let myself think i was being a paranoid bitch and i was not.
Molly and I definitely had our differences, but I appreciate this a lot. Despite the issues I had personally with Molly, even I will admit that Ally played a part in manipulating us both behind the scenes, and making the situation even worse. Seriously everyone, be WARNED. Not only does Ally steal characters (honestly, I have even more receipts to show her “reply” to the call-out post my friend wrote was absolute bullshit), she tries to turn you against everyone, manipulates every situation to make herself look like the victim, and then tries to isolate you so you can’t confront issues head on.
Molly, I’m sorry Ally deleted spelled rather than admit she was wrong and deal with the consequences. You didn’t deserve that. I know you put a lot of work into the group, and to just have it deleted like that sucks.
Ally, if you see this, I sincerely hope you take a look at your actions and the way you treat people. It’s outrageous.
This is just another instance of Ally taking someone else’s content and doing what she pleases with it, without any regard for their feelings. No matter what issues I may have had with Molly personally, she did not deserve to have her group deleted. Full stop. You could see from the Spelled main that Molly put a lot of effort into the group, and I know how hard it can be to pass a group on when you love it, but Molly did that because she wanted to see it thrive. Instead, a person she trusted took all her hard work and threw it away without even consulting her first.
I’m so sorry Molly, this was never my intention in calling her out. I absolutely never thought for a second that she would go ahead and delete the whole group because of what she personally did. You know from experience that when we had issues, I talked to you about it. You were willing to listen, and I know you did try to improve things. I respect that. It seems clear to me now that Ally was manipulating us all the whole time to make sure that we wouldn’t be able to come to terms, but at the time we all trusted her. That was a mistake we all made, and I’m really, truly sorry she did this to you.
Just for the record, at no point since this started has Ally actually apologized for what she’s done. She’s made excuses, told us all why it’s okay that she stole content, but she hasn’t actually apologized to the people she HURT. And that’s why none of this is okay. She hurt people who trusted her, over and over again, and while she’s told us how bad she feels about it, she hasn’t even bothered to apologize. Be careful who you trust folks, that’s really all I can say.
