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May 31, 2026 🎀

On how other people see you as a fat person

Most of my thoughts on this are made on this post

I’ve said it before but no one cares enough to pay that much attention to those around them and even less to have a thought about you. If someone has said something to you irl you’ve come across a shitty person, but that doesn’t mean everyone is shitty. Humans are inherently morally neutral, it’s not a lot of effort to be an asshole and ruin someone’s day. All of that is to say do you really think everyone cares to see whether or not you were being a ‘Good Fatty’ or did bad experiences make you feel unnecessarily paranoid?

This is from closer to the end of the post and it’s a little more heinous of an example where fat acceptance makes the world feel worse for fat people.

About the bit on diet talk in the office especially, based off the limited information in the post, OP is making an assumption on the situation. Like I don’t know your work ethic to truly believe that you would be the black sheep of the office purely because you didn’t engage in ‘diet talk’. And even if you were, this isn’t a general experience, you’re stuck in a work environment that doesn’t suit you or is particularly toxic, it says very little about the larger world, which truly does not revolve around dieting as much as you think it does because it’s a clearly touchy subject for a fat person.

How often are you talking with strangers for them to give you at worst quick comment? Unless we’re talking about online strangers?

On people you know, I do agree that they’re more persistent because they feel like they can be. It does feel like shit but when it is genuine concern for your health I now understand their frustration of watching someone they care about put themselves in harm’s way. I would ask though is there any possibility that your views on glp-1s had seeped into the conversation with the person that had taken it and that was why they were giving you the cold shoulder?

Anyways, I do think a movement that isolates you from people you interact with in real life and draws you further into a ‘safe’ online space is inherently harmful. Nothing good comes from fearmongering about the real world especially when providing no real suggestions for changing it.

People don’t hate you because they’re criticising one aspect of you/your health. Especially if it’s the latter and someone you know, they WANT you to be around for longer.

Part 4 might take a little while because it needs more research

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Gotta make running errands fun somehow right? Also I wish I could find more squishmallow backpacks, I love them so much!!!

[id: a redraw of the aphrodite sprite from the second hades game. aphrodite is fat and has curlier pink hair. she holds a spear and a shield. the second image is the transparent version of the piece. end id.]