there’s a misconception that grief only happens when we lose people. this is not true. we can grieve circumstances, relationships, missed opportunities. in fact, sometimes when you find yourself plagued with waves of emotion from sadness to melancholy you may be grieving yourself. the version of yourself that you might have been if things had been different, or if only you had said something, or if someone had stood up for you.

Still a hopeless romantic after all this time. Very insane of me.

very irresponsible of me 

how am i so obsessive and so avoidant at the same time

nobody talks about how exhausting it is to live in that space between "things will get better" and "i can't handle this anymore." it's like your emotions are constantly swinging. leaving you both hopeful and defeated in the same day.

if you have a breeding kink but also support the right to have an abortion, you’re hot and I love you

Taking this opportunity to inform you to unfollow me right away if you don’t support the rights for abortions.

Men with the kind of yearning you only find in books

tumblr is great bc its like a diary where I can take other peoples diary entries and glue them into my own diary

If you spent the first half of 2026 in survival mode, may the second half be spent in revival mode. It’s time to heal.

Concept: we are together. you are sleeping with your body wrapped around mine. it is quiet. my mind is calm. we are happy.

I do suffer the american condition of liking to drink huge drinks