does anyone know how to get what you want when you're the type of person who avoids everything

Safe to say that good communication can fix almost everything.

And sometimes the fix is an amicable goodbye.

I think when you correctly identify a trauma that is the base of a woe of yours it should just disappear. It should be like "aaahh. you got me" and vanish and leave 100 dollars behind

i’m going to show up as me and be true to me and everything else falls into line

we were put on this earth to eat sandwiches

phone in bed show me what I need to see

I post a lot about how fat people deserve to feel sexy and are hot, which is true, but I do also want to remind everyone that fat people should also be able to exist and be respected without being sexualised or you being attracted to them. You should respect people and treat them normally regardless of how attracted to them you are. If your activism centres purely around how much you can sexualise a marginalised group, your activism is shit, sorry

A lot of adulthood is shouting “AUGH MY LAUNDRY” hours after you put it in the washer/dryer and running to go fetch it

oh shit my laundry

reblog to save someone’s laundry

I know you’re tired, but be gentle with yourself. You’re doing a good job.

i like it when people compliment me. i like it... when people like me. (looks around to make sure nobody is about to shoot me)