* SHE / LIGHT.

little psa !!!

i will never have an RPC stance stronger than this honestly it’s the root of all of my things here: communicate with your partners! Not feeling a thread? tell them! want to write something different? Tell them. Love a ship but need a break from it? Tell them! Ship or plot you plotted not going the way you wanted so you want to do something different? Say so! talk about things with each other. and this goes for so many things too. Love someone but they post something you hate? let them know so they can blacklist it! love someone but afraid your characters will never be able to interact in their fandoms? say it! fill out interest trackers. talk to each other. ESPECIALLY people you are writing with, talk to, etc. Look at one another as other humans. Talk to each other. Be patient with each other, express your concerns. You would be SHOCKED the amount of hurt feelings and anxiety and other things that would simply go away if we did our best to just communicate with each other. I think somewhere along the way communication got seen as a bad thing. People started just evaporating on each other and saying it wasn’t personal. Or mistaking ‘don’t take this too seriously, do what makes you happy, you don’t have to reply to everything’ for never expressing how you feel. It’s okay to tell people when something’s not working. it’s okay to talk. Trust one another. talk. I can not say this enough and in enough ways.