you gotta be fucking with me, right?
literally doing the whole "I wish femininity was as impossible for me as it is for you!"
No but this post is actually insane. This is just mythologizing transfemme suffering
I love how it is phrased like transfem people are generally intentionally trying to genderfuck and not that bigots all treat us all like men in skirts regardless of how we are trying to present (or even how well we present).
Like... I may be genderfucking with uptight straights who are cis because they are uptight straights who are cis but that doesn't mean I am not presenting as a woman. They/them'ing me for being "too manly" while praising me for genderfucking in a skirt isn't enlightened. It makes you a bigot just like the uptight straights who are cis.
Also, this is coming from the dudes who can take T for a year and grow a beard. Go buy a suit Annie Lennox/David Bowie style. Like damn. "I wish I had people as upset by my expression of my gender identity as trans women," is a fucking weird place to be at.












