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One of the most dangerous things in the world is not being able to say no to people because you don't want to upset them or dissapoint them. This will completely ruin your life in every way possible, at work, in your private life, your sex life and your friendships. It's a way of removing your own consent in your own decisions and go against your wishes, it is always a crime against yourself. Let yourself have a say. Upsetting people is better than traumatizing yourself.
Kinda sick and tired of people treating racism like itās no big deal, and specifically especially sick and tired of people blindly crying ātransmisogynistic harassmentā whenever someone criticizes their favorite white trans woman for her racism.
More people are talking about TADCās leaks in sympathy for Gooseworx than they are about her being silent on how she participated in racist jokes other than implying it was not āgenuineā racism. Nobody seems to bring up Patricia āI am also limited in my ability to racially oppress due to being trans and disabledā Taxxonās consistent racism, despite her becoming relevant again due to the latest incident with Hbomberguy. A lot of popular transfem bloggers on Tumblr have a history of racism too, but God forbid you bring it up.
I feel fucking crazy. What happened to āyou are white before you are anything elseā? So many popular trans women on here are specifically white trans women who youāre not allowed to point out have said racist shit that they still stand by, or youāre the bad person. Youāre overreacting. Youāre harassing a poor innocent white woman over nothing that actually matters, and you need to touch grass and learn what a real problem is. These women are allowed to wield their white woman tears by crying about how oppressed they are and how hard their lives are and how everybody is out to get them when criticized for racism, and people just BUY IT?? Not just buy it, but ENFORCE IT, harass others who DONāT buy it, accuse the ones who donāt buy it of, and I quote, LYNCHING her.
White trans women are not less likely to be racist than any other type of white person, but theyāre treated like they are, and the notion they could be racist is treated as inherently ridiculous, defamatory, and transmisogynistic.
I think that some people need to come to grips with the fact that some of these women are blatantly, openly racist, and hide behind their disabilities/mental illnesses and their transness. We cannot be positioning white trans women as an authority on all systems of oppression, because white trans women are not the modern martyr for the oppressed voice. Black trans women have felt everything they have, 100 times worse. White trans womenās suffering is real, but suffering as a white woman is just so much different. And if we want the trans community to be safe for POC, we need to start actually calling racism from trans people out, instead of being the girl who cried transmisogynistic harassment campaign.
But this is the website that says a term coined by a Black trans woman to call out racism from white members of the transfem community is inherently transmisogynistic (even a transmisogynistic slur) and should never be used. So maybe Iām just talking to a (very racist) brick wall here.
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I would actually go as far as to say that MOST abuse is unintentional. I think most people will go through their lives without ever experiencing intentional abuse. People are abusive because they're selfish, because they're stressed, because they care more about what society thinks they should do than the impacts of their actions on their children and partners, because they think what they're doing is correct, because they've made it make sense in their own heads, because they think they can fix their victims, they think they can fix their relationships, they think they can stop you from leaving, they think they can make you a better partner to them, they think that means you need to do what they want. We've sort of constructed mental illness in a way that doing this shit to other people counts as a form of mental illness because it is anti social behavior in the literal senseā it is behavior that causes social harm.
I don't say any of this to excuse it. I think everyone needs to be more aware of this because if you think abuse has to be intentional you will never realize you are capable of abusive behavior. You will never realize you are being shitty to the people you love, because YOU know what you mean, YOU know you don't mean any harm. But you're doing harm. You need to pay attention to the impact you have on other people, and you need to do it all the time, Especially when you feel least capable of doing so. Sorry! You live in a society. Get your head out of your ass.
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2. msn butterfly
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everyone in this comic is awful except for Dad Egbert
Me: so, like, people insist that Bro is Forever Bad and beyond redemption and no one is allowed to enjoy his character or else theyāre excusing his treatment of Dave, but⦠why does no one say that about Mom Lalonde? who raised Rose while drunk off her ass 24/7? who raised her child in such a way that the child misinterpreted EVERYTHING she did as passive-aggressive mind games? (letās not even talk about how Rose later tried to cope with the realization that her dead mom actually did love her by emulating her motherās bad habits and blaming herself for being a ābad daughter.ā)
Non-Homestuck friend: iām wondering why people whose delicate feefees are hurt by people being horrible even LIKE this fucking comic!
Me: RIGHT? i love this fucked up comic and its fucked up characters but itās about TERRIBLE PEOPLE being BROKEN AND TERRIBLE. theyāre ALL Problematic Faves. but, you know, Broās the ONLY one we must boo and hiss at. letās just ignore that Jadeās (senile??) grandpa let a toddler play with LOADED PISTOLS.
Friend: ā¦the other examples. the children are girls.
Me: ⦠⦠ā¦iād only been considering the genders of the adults.
Friend: nnnnnuuup. abuse is worse when it happens to their male fave.
Me: FUCK
I hope you can forgive me for commenting on what seems like more of a personal post, but I just have to get my thoughts out there, and this really crystallized one of my main problems with the retcon.
So likeā¦Roseās drinking problem partially stems from Roxyās drinking problem. Yet somehow in the retconā¦this magically goes away? Like yeah I donāt think Rose would hold a grudge against Roxy for stuff her mom did, but the reunion wouldnāt be without its stress, especially with their respective issues.
But no, Rose and Roxy meet like itās the next best family reunion with only minor comments about some issues Rose was having, while Dave and Dirk get this tense, emotional reunion scene dealing with their respective issues candidly? āCause why, Daveās pain matters more? Why was Roseās development circumvented in such a way?
Why Hussie?
No worries! If I didnāt want discussion, I would have made this into one of Tumblrās āchatā posts instead of a regular text post that allows reblogs with commentary. :)
Anyway, I super agree with basically everything here. Rose had a complicated and angsty character arc going on, then we retconned and, poof, itās gone because Vriska yelled at her apparently. (Did Vriska have to intervene more than once? Did she reason with Rose or just guilt trip her? Did Rose have her emotional needs met? Weāll probably never know.) Thereās piles upon piles of text dedicated to carefully sifting through the Strider angst, while Rose and Roxy get⦠Dave butting in on their reunion. LE SIGH.
Thatās just par for the course with most of the characters lately, but the female characters seem to be hit by it especially hard. Hereās a long-standing, difficult problem! Letās just handwave it away and/or give it a simple solution instead of letting the character struggle with it.
The more I think about this, the more I realize that if Iām gonna complain that a male character is receiving extra angsty introspection while a female character has her depth casually shrugged off, I should probably point fingers at the author first. (Though there are still factions of fandom that I narrow my eyes at in a āyou, at least, should know betterā fashion.)
At this point, Iām just waiting/praying for the reveal that Caliborn has hijacked the narrative and thatās why the retcon feels so hollow for every character except the alpha timeline Striders.
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