h

this dude reminds me of my drug addicted mother with how often he lies about such weird shit

Opiates. You make opiates from poppies.

He also acts exactly like one of my exes who would kill a bottle of vodka every night and scream utter nonsense at people on discord.

He is an active danger to himself and others. He's also a privileged, petulant brat. He was able to medically transition at a very young age, he lives in a very well off neighborhood in one of the most expensive states in the country, his medical expenses are covered (which is significant since he has a lot of medical issues), his idea of "homelessness" is moving in with a relative, and his idea of "violence" is being told to practice safe sex on tumblr dot com and maybe not make jokes about spreading fuckin STIs throughout a historically vulnerable population.

He's an out of control, lying ball of rage that doesn't give a shit who he hurts or whether or not the things he asserts are true. He's even viciously attacked people who were nothing but nice and tried to help him with no criticism whatsoever.