Every time something kind of major happens in my life, I'm reminded how little my so-called friends actually care.
Cancer diagnosis? Crickets.
Discovering a half-sister? Crickets.
I'm sick to death of always listening to their problems, asking how they're doing, etc. only to get zero consideration or concern in return. It's not just one or two people, either. It's literally everyone.
Maybe I expect too much, but i don't think people checking in to say "did you hear anything else about x,y,z?" is asking too much. You don't have to be invested, but stop dumping your shit on me if you don't care to share the load when I've got something to share or that I'm worried about.



















