The Hole Experience

This? In particular? Pisses me off. I hate it.

I hate the implication that all porn is interchangeable and devoid of cultural value, so it’s no big deal when a decade’s worth of creative endeavor produced by a vibrant subculture is destroyed, because, whatever, it’s just dirty pictures.

I hate the disingenuous inability to see a distinction between a website that is about porn only, and a website that allows people to blog about all of their interests and aspects of their lives including sex and porn because those are normal parts of the human experience.

The Official “Log Off” Protest F.A.Q! 

The “Log Off” protest is in response to the recent NSFW ban announced by Tumblr. The ban flags all content the filtering system detects as NSFW, reducing visibility to the community. The system has proven time and time again that is inefficient, oftentimes flagging SFW material as NSFW. 

This SFW material includes art, memes and so on. This ban directly hurts the community and will not solve the actual problems at hand due to the poor flagging system. Because of this, the entire community will suffer.  

So to respond, I propose that every user on Tumblr logs off of Tumblr for 24 hours on December 17th at 12 am EST. 

Times are listed above depending on timezone! 

This post responds to some very common questions about the protest. So make sure to read it over! 

How to Export Your Blog: 

https://tumblr.zendesk.com/hc/en-us/articles/360005118894-Export-your-blog

Alternative Sites: 

Pillowfort

Mastodan 

Wordpress 

Twitter 

There is also an official Tumblr blog (ironic, huh?) and Twitter for the protest! It’s at: 

Twitter - https://twitter.com/logoffprotest

Tumblr - https://logoffprotest.tumblr.com/

There will be official updates on each account. Make sure to tag us in any posts, or use the hashtag #logoff2018 ! 

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Lot of practice. I fist myself probably every other day.

But what probably tipped it over the edge was really stretching my hole, not only width wise but depth wise. I used butternut squashes ever increasing in size as was the perfect shape. This caused me to have a minor prolapse.

Once this was regular, I bought a cock pump to really increase the size of the prolapse. I shove the pump as far inside me as it will go and then pump as hard as I can. This seems to have loosened the tissue deeper inside which is why my prolapse is a lot bigger now :)

New hole wrecking video compilation. Check it out!

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Becoming a Pussyboy, Step #3: Advanced plug training.

So, you’ve spent some time starting to explore your pussy both physically, through exploration of toys, and mentally, through reflecting on these physical explorations and beginning to reduce your pre-conditioned reliance on your cock.

If you’ve been successful with these first steps, you’ve gained some sense of control over the sensations associated with anal play. What feels good, what doesn’t, how to make it feel good. When to back off, when to take a deep breath and keep taking it. Let’s build off of that and further train your hole into a full-fledged cunt.

Most, if not all, pussyboys get a rush from pleasing and impressing a top. On the flipside, one of the worst things is having to tap out or ask the top not to fuck as hard or as deep as he wants to. You may not care to advance to fisting, but we would all benefit from training to help learn to relax the pussy on command.

Being a good bottom is all about muscle control. Taking and holding a plug in is a study in muscle control. The bigger you go, the more your muscles will fight against you, and the deeper your learning will be.

Size really does matter here. If you’re training to take decent-sized cock with ease, then a 2″ diameter plug (e.g. this one) will probably do the trick. If you’re more of a size guy and want to give those real big ones a run for their money, then a 2.5″ diameter plug (e.g.) is a decent goal. If you’re going for fisting, a 3″ plug (e.g., as worn by yours truly in the above picture) will get you in the door but you’ll want to work up as big as you can go for the best experience.

Plug-fucking, as with a dildo, is a very stimulating experience and great for training your hole, but the goal here is long-term wear. Once again, being a good bottom is about muscle control, and if you can go for a whole hour or even a whole day with a decent-sized plug inside, then you’ve already learned a degree of muscle control you didn’t know you had. Every time the plug gets a bit uncomfortable and you manage to work through it and keep going, that’s one less time he’s had to stop fucking you for your own sake.

Start with half an hour. This should be do-able if your plug is at the right size for how much training you’ve done thus far, although you may break a sweat if you haven’t been training much until now. Work up to an hour. If you can manage an hour, you can probably go much longer with a bit of effort. Now, see if you can wear it ‘til your lunch break. Or, for your whole night out. Challenge yourself, and do it often. You are the master of your own cunt.

Before listing some key reasons, let’s emphasize that chastity encompasses more than just caging a penis. Submissive men with great self-control can be perfectly chaste through obedience alone, a very impressive feat. Dominant men may also prefer a sub with an unusually small penis to have it fully visible. So with both options (caging and pure obedience) in mind, here goes:

Ownership: It reflects someone’s ownership over your body. He decides when it’s right for you to climax. Your orgasms are secondary. It is about the fact that you have ceded control over them to the man who owns your body. He can decide to have you beat off on a whim, or deny it for discipline.

Arousal: Chastity will make you unusually horny. Being unable to release that sexual tension makes you sexually charged. Your feelings of sexual attraction are revved up, and you become more open to new sexual experiences. Paradoxically, you feel more like a sexual person than when you were free. You are always in a state of readiness.

Realignment: Chastity leads to drastic changes in sexual behavior. Being unable to jerk off leads to exploring other forms of sexual activity, such as focusing on your ass, mouth, and nipples (and male breasts for those who have them). 

Self-Control: This is particularly true when chastity is achieved through pure obedience. For those unprepared for this leap, who cannot control their own urges, a cage is like a bike with training wheels. Your key-holder can help you learn the virtues of chastity, to the point where you are eventually able to exercise full self-control. Admittedly, some may never reach that point, and may need to remain caged.

Role Clarity: You enjoy being in a relationship characterized by well-defined and contrasting roles - Dominant and submissive, top and bottom. Sublimating a defining trait of masculine identity - seeing your penis small, limp, and useless except to pee - is psychologically potent. It helps you focus on serving your obviously more masculine partner, both in and out of bed. Especially when caged, it unmistakably signals no need for reciprocation. Your penis is clearly marked as not a sexual organ, focusing your partner’s attention on your ass, mouth, and nipples.