One thing I don't think people understand is that since I'm incontinent, things they would normally worry about when wearing in public is something that never crosses my mind. I get a lot of questions with people asking how to hide crinkles in public, but the truth is that it is never even a thought when I'm out. If I do crinkle I don't notice it. It's very normalized for me since I wear 24/7. Hiding diaper bulk is something I can't accurately give advice on as well since I have to accommodate for the level of protection I need to get through the day efficiently with as little changes as possible. Hiding diaper bulge is my last priority and in most cases, not even doable. One question I also get a lot is how many "pees" does my diaper hold. Again, it's something I can't answer because half the time I'm not aware when it happens, and even if I was the varies in the amount of liquids you intake and what kind of liquids your body is taking in. I don't actively attempt to hide my diapers because it's just another part of my life that I've had to cope with. It's just as regular as wearing a pair of socks or brushing my teeth, or taking a shower. You don't give too much thought to these to these things because they are just part of your everyday life. It's the same thing for me when it comes to wearing diapers. Now I do consider myself an ABDL/ Little but those aspects are completely different when it comes to wearing diapers and usually I'll have to be in a certain headspace for diapers to play a role. Any other time I'm wearing and not in a headspace diapers are just another pair of socks to me (figuratively speaking of course)
