there and back again

One of the prayer plants my bestie V gave me is blooming! Such a precious and delicate lil baby flower

Both Mimi and I approve of the new Hori Hori knife, I can’t believe how much grass I cleared out of a bed today and how easy it was! Mad I took this long to get one 💖 🪴

Shoutout to that obviously neurodivergent baker way back in the day who figured out squishing the butter cubes in a pie crust with your fingers makes it way more flakey

Gluten free cinnamon buns!!!

This is sadly too perfect of an example of how performative allyship can be super harmful and useless. On March 31st Mendocino County Public Health posted a Trans Day of Visibility post. This was a Friday. (This matters because there is no way to contact anyone until Monday) Whoever posted it just did it and dipped. There is no moderation at all in this post and it’s become a bunch of hateful and ignorant folks spewing misinformation and disgusting stuff. How did this post help or support any trans people? For about two seconds I felt seen and then saw the comments and that all was quickly washed away. I’m non binary and all it did was make me feel like shit that it was posted and then not backed up by any actions to keep me safe (ie moderating) and no effort to curb misinformation (people talking about it being a mental illness and grooming) I’m going to be contacting them on Monday with my complaints and I highly urge anyone else to please do the same. There is a level of responsibility that comes with talking about this kind of stuff and this was so beyond inappropriate.

Mine is a bit older with different photos of them but wow it’s so bizarre seeing such backlash against drag in some places and then here I’m able to get my debit card with local drag queens on it. Makes me feel very grateful to be living here where I do rn (both of my direct neighbors have vocally been saying trans rights too) and definitely recognize my privilege (Community First Credit Union rules just in general) https://www.instagram.com/p/CqcFhaiLELe/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

FROGGIE PIZZA FROGGIE PIZZA FROGGIE PIZZA!!!!! 🐸 🍕 https://www.instagram.com/p/Cqb44PkLUSZ/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

Lemon thumbprint cookies with lemon curd filling 🍋 🍋 🍋 https://www.instagram.com/p/CqW0zxqL1yM/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

Lemon curd from my Meyer lemon tree and chicken eggs! https://www.instagram.com/p/CqWq02HJLr6/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

The Duchess (my camellia bush) is popping OFF https://www.instagram.com/p/CqMD6XaP94X/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

Alright my buddies, throw me ur favorite chicken tamale recipes https://www.instagram.com/p/CqMD1B9PVgt/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

Your reminder to clean your washer filter! (And also the seal for the door, tons of hair can get stuck between the seal and the drum) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cp0-E1rPgnB/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

One of my niblings found this cool mussel shell that 100% looks like a whale and I love it so much https://www.instagram.com/p/Cpl5PberZvn/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=