Pick a card: your future spouse's duality (pros and cons) ✮⋆˙
About this reading: Okay so this was supposed to be a pros & cons list of your fs but honestlyyy… I realised midway that what I might consider a ‘con’ could literally be someone else’s biggest ‘pro’ and vice versa.
So instead of separating everything, I just combined it all into one list, because personality is layered and everyone connects differently!! I really hope you enjoy reading this one, I had so much fun channeling it and I’m excited for you to see which parts resonate hehe 💓
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THEY LOVE CATSSSS. I'm already sold 😭😭
They are your partner before being your spouse, so you’ll always have that super friendly dynamic. It’ll feel like yall are friends most of the time, so it could also be a friends to lovers kinda story awwiee
They are veryyy competitive 💀 Honestly I was torn about whether this should go in pros or cons, but tbh it felt better here because there will always be a spark in your relationship and that “healthy challenging” dynamic. I'm also hearing this thing that you both will be competing over who loves your child more....yeah so there’s that 😭✋🏻
Veryyy in tune with their feminine energy regardless of their gender. If it's a lady you're interested in, she carries a verrry feminine demeanor and she honestly reminds me of Monica Bellucci, one of the most feminine women i've ever seen , like the classic bookish definition of feminine she is (imo). If it's a male you're interested in, he'd be VERYY emotional, would actually take care of himself and you a lot, I’m talking about constantly checking your health, what you're eating, drinking and those tiny minute things in life. They would seriously pay attention to everything!!!
BUT REGARDLESS OF ANYTHING…THIS PERSON IS GORGEOUS ASF 😭 DON'T EVEN GET ME STARTED!!! They for some reason remind me of 80s celebrities, like very classy, very timeless, and yk those blurry fliters and stuff. Also like Audrey Hepburn, or ANY Elvis Presley song… OR the song “I Can’t Help Falling in Love” 😭 Even like an expensive vintage nude lipstick idk why (sometimes I sit and shake my head thinking what kind of absurd examples I mention in my readings sometimes 😭)
This person is actually very emotionally stable. BUT Emotionally available? Not fully sure… but definitely veryyy stable 😭 So if you’re going crazy, can’t make a rational decision, or want to bang your head into a wall, you can rely on them for rational advice. But if you want to feel “validated,” idk if that’s something you're gonna get from them. They’re the type to tell you what you need to hear, not what you WANT to hear. They will NOT shy away from calling out your delusions, wrong behaviours, or even your BS 😀 (BUT I MEAN, at least they aren't sugarcoating, so that’s a good point I guess 😭)
HMMMMM so this person also has the tendency to zone out a lot lol. Maybe during serious conversations, they’ll just start staring at you in a way which shows they aren't even hearing what you're saying, They're fun for sure, but this habit can annoy you sometimes 😭 They also tend to regret things and carry guilt for the longest time (personally that's kinda one of my icks) Like if they failed at something, or didn’t achieve something, or even about past relationships, they might still linger on it, thinking they could’ve done better. So sometimes they might bring up old scenarios AGAIN and AGAIN, which might annoy you because you’ll be like, “what’s done is done, why tf cry about it now” But this also connects to their competitive side, they always wanna win, be the best, or perfect everything. Some of them might even have slight OCD tendencies ngl
Gworlllll OBVIOUSLY this point is gonna be on the pros side BECAUSE your future spouse is actually gonna be quite wealthy🫠 Or at least they have the luck and ability to build solid wealth. If at any point in life you wanna quit working and your fs is ready to provide, YOU CAN totally do that cuz this person will bring good wealth into your lives!!
They have a sharp tongue. VERY. SHARP. They won’t ever shy away from saying their thoughts out loud. So if you’re ever in a situation where you can’t say something because it feels “rude,” don’t worry, your person will gladly handle it for you 😭✋🏻 Because of this, people might call them “arrogant” or “too straightforward,” and sometimes they’ll also wish they could hold themselves back lmaooooo🥲
Their looks and personality DO NOT MATCH. Their personality is completely opposite of how they look. No matter how they look, they're personality is opposite!! They’re gonna be cuties regardless 😋
Also… veryyy squishy cheeks 😔✨ (god I wanna meet pile 1’s person too… just from afar I guess 😭)
I know this doesn’t fall in the pros/cons list but they could have a veryyy moon like vibe in how they look and carry themselves… but a very Aries and fiery personality. Major mood swings too!!!! (After all the points till now, they're def gonna be a handful for you)
This person is veryyy adventurous. They wanna explore every club, every hangout spot, every interesting place around them. A travel freak no doubt. They plan spontaneous trips (and well, they can afford it too lol), and you’ll have to tag along whether you want to or not hehehehehe
I know I said they won't shy from calling you out and that it might annoy you sometimes, BUT most of the time you’ll actually want them to. You know when we secretly want someone to tell us the truth we’re avoiding? Yeah they’ll do that. They’ll show you the reality you’re scared to admit, which is also why they’ll become your comfort space 💗
Sometimes this person gets REALLY confused between choices When multiple options are handed to them, they get confused and frustrated LMAOO. A funny example, like even if they're given multiple dishes at once, they'll be confused about which one to pick first. This might annoy you if you aren’t that indecisive because you'll be like, “gawd just pick one and move on,” while they’ll be calculating everything before choosing 😭.
They might also have the tendency to be a little cocky at times tooooo!!
WOAHHH so these were the messages i could get about pile 1 and ngl there are some really uncomfortable ones too but tbh the good ones also make up for it!!
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Okay, so your person is actually very generous at heart. I'm getting the scene where this person hands you a gift and has a bigger smile than you just bcz they are happy seeing you happy! 🥲✋🏻 (Stop it) So their top love language is literally gift-giving. They love giving people things. I’m seeing them gifting you a lot of stuff even in the early stages of the relationship, and as things grow between you two, they’ll keep doing it. They’ll take care of you through these little (and big) gifts because what makes them happy is showing love materially. That’s just how they are!!
This person actually really loves planning everything ahead. They want to know what’s going to happen, when, where, and how!!! So you can absolutely expect that with this person, marriage is DEFINITELY on the table for them. If you’re not into that, it might get tricky, but I’m seeing that very early in your relationship they’re gonna be SO sure about you. Like “Yep that’s my person. I’m gonna marry them and build a long life with them” And tbh that’s definitely a pros list moment
Okay listen, this isn’t a pros/cons point but this person gave me strong Harvey Specter vibes. If you like that energy… HELLOOO TWINN😭🔥 They’re not the overly friendly or “haha funny” type, they’re more of the solid dependable type. The kind of partner who shows love in that mature, manly (or dominating but not overbearing?) protective way. Not the goofy bestie more like the “I’ve got you” friend you can count on.
This person is SOOOOOO full of love omg 😭💗 like overflowing. I’m literally seeing this absurd image of someone pouring buckets of water on their partner which is symbolising showering them with love (CUTEEEEEEE) They want to express their love so intensely that you’ll be like “OKAY let me love you too pls 😭” But that’s just how they work, they won’t give you much space to "out love" them. For them your happiness with what they’re doing is the biggest “I love you” back!!!
What I’m ALSO seeing is this person is WEALTHY WEALTHY, like, they’ll go out of their way to spend on you. In the early stages you might be like “okay calm down you’re overspending” but that’s literally how they express love. But the funny thing is… they’re actually very smart with money!! They never invest blindly. They think A LOT before putting money anywhere. So tbh if they’re investing in YOU, then you MATTER A lot to them😭💗
WOAHHH this person lives a very disciplined life. like strict routine, sticking to habits religiously and if you’re with them, they might lowkey “force” it on you too LMAOO. like making sure you eat all meals, sleep properly, drink water, function like a normal human being 🤡 If you’re the “I’ll do whatever I want idc” type, this might feel like a LOT sometimes
They’re also VERY detached. Like… emotionally detached in a click. They can cut people off so easily it’s insane. Personally, I’m the type who prefers people with a little attachment issue 😭 (eill society call me insane for this? 😭👉🏻👈🏻) like wdym it didn’t bother you that we didn’t talk for 3 days??? Wdym you’re not pissed at my silent treatment?? Why DO YOU HAVE TO BE sooooo understanding 😭😭 So ngl this trait would piss me off too LMAO 🥲
Not a pro or con but this person would actually be veryyy lucky for you!! There will be many moments where you’ll be like “Wait… ever since they entered my life, things got better?” Maybe it’s great astrological compatibility or just divine timing but yeah… they’ll bring luck.
They would LOVE kids!!! And they’d be sooo good with them. Which is funny because earlier I saw how they’re not great with emotional words, but with kids they’d be such a softie!!! Maybe because kids are non-judgmental (well… MOST kids are… but some scare me too ngl 😭) But it makes sense since they genuinely want a family with you.
Idk if it’s just me being delulu but I honestly can’t find a proper “negative” point about them 😭 Everything circles back to something good somehow istg. It's like i feel compelled to give reason behind everything? Maybe this could be how your person is gonna be like? Yk constantly explaining themselves or trying to prove their point?
This person reminds me of the song “I Bet on Losing Dogs” by Mitski. You can give it a listen tooo! This song feels like their hidden emotional side, the one only 1% of people ever see. But you'll get to see it obviously.
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Very lovely person indeed!!! Very happy, fun company to be with. It won’t feel boring around them at all, and I’m guessing a lot of them would have an amazing smile. Like soooo cuteeee!!! Cuz yk the moment I sat down to start pile 3 reading I literally started feeling so happy?? I was feeling butterflies for no reason, and I got that feeling yk when you really, really want to love someone?? Like personally I don’t have anyone in my life rn to feel that for, so feeling that all of a sudden doesn’t make much sense except that this person will feel the same for you, and you for them 💖💓
Hmmm now the thing is… this fun, botherless, carefree personality of theirs might somehow come off as a little too careless to you? Maybe initially when you’re not sure about them yet this quality might make you overthink. You might doubt whether this person is actually serious about you or sees the relationship with longterm potential
This person is VERY self fulfilled and confident. They don’t really look for external validation at all !!! Could be someone who worked their ass off in their teenage years or early 20s and is now enjoying the fruits of that hard work? along the way they’ve mastered the art of detachment too, very transformative energy in some way. Someone who likes to approach things in new ways, and someone who loves changing up their looks. Always exploring different styles, aesthetics, vibes… the whole makeover every few months kinda person hehehehe
They’re also extremely charming and magnetic in how they express themselves. Like you would be blown away by the way they show their feelings I'm not talking about their looks, not actually their energy, personality and everything is amazing! So charismatic, warm, and unexpectedly sweet. But what I’m ALSO seeing is that sometimes, because they’re so damn mesmerizing, you might end up feeling a little insecure… or feel like you’re not enough for them :( Not for all of you, but for some, this could show up when they don’t give you the amount of attention you need, or when that unsaid understanding isn’t strong yet. This could become a small challenge for you pile 3.
This person may also come off as a little dominating 💀 Sometimes there’ll be ego clashes between you two, especially if you also have that tiny streak of wanting to be right all the time. like those moments where it’s, “No my choice is right” “No, mine is better.” In another sense, you might sometimes feel like they have an upper hand over you energetically. not intentionally, but just because of how confident and magnetic they are. but don’t worry, with time you do overcome this phase.
Lol now I’m seeing y’all will actually have quite a LOT of arguments 🥲 Not major fights, just disagreements over silly things. Suppose they like to rush, you don’t. Or vice versa. Even deep into the relationship, this issue will pop up here and there because both of you have different pacing styles 😭
This person will really challenge you to grow!! Your personalities will clash sometimes, and you’ll have to meet halfway. Sometimes one person has to compromise, and that will teach both of you a LOT, especially patience, if that’s something you struggle with.
And what I’m seeing is… initially, there won’t be deep love right away (obviously it will grow), but you’ll start casually. Mostly physical at first because the attraction is INSANE!!!! Like both of you will be so physically drawn to each other, and you’ll be in a “let’s see where this goes” kind of vibe. But then things take such a TURN, suddenly it’s like, “Okay I actually can’t live without this person??” The energy evolves very quickly, with a lot of impatience from one side. Quick momentum, no slow burn here 😭🔥
It will take you a while to feel sure that this person is serious about you. Because for a long time, you might feel like they aren’t. They’re not an open book at all, very hard to read, very logical outwardly. But deep down they’re actually a HUGE feeler. They just don’t show that side to everyone. That’s the tricky part, you won’t always know their emotional world at first. WELL I won’t lie… this is giving Christian Grey kinda💀🤡 Well I haven’t seen the movie but from what my friends told me (and THEY read the book), this person lowkey embodies some traits of his, like being head over heels for you, would literally do anything for you, plus the sexual attraction is SO STRONG. which is undeniably there between you two.
For some reason i could only get this many messages from pile 3. Maybe because your person is very private about their deep thoughts and emotions? But anyways, i hope i could satisfy y'all with this! 🥰
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