YesIsWired

literally doing the whole "I wish femininity was as impossible for me as it is for you!"

TMEs will say "I wish I was as hated as trans women are" without a hint of irony

I did not "decide to become a girl" I was actively suppressing the "girly" desires and things to talk about before realizing I'm a girl due to the expectations that society placed on me

I was always a girl but I kept destroying myself in favor of appealing to the majority

There's always a moment of intense cultural whiplash whenever I realize I'm talking to someone who thinks "legal" and "illegal" are meaningful categories and ascribes innate goodness to following the law. It's like meeting a space alien.

USAmerican lesbians really went "okay so theres guy lesbians and woman lesbians"

"guy lesbians are strong and earn money and they are the dominant lesbian in the relationship and women lesbians are weak and are good caretakers and are the submissive one in the relationship"

"guy lesbians are BIGGER and have MUSCLES and cut their hair SHORT and wear SUITS and TOP their woman lesbian with their dick i mean their cock i mean their STRAP (it is very important to clarify guy lesbian's penis "isn't a penis") and any relationship MISSING a guy lesbian or woman lesbian needs to be TOLD it's OKAY to be DIFFERENT, and this is my baseline idealization of lesbian relationships and a box of tropes I force fictional lesbians into conforming around"

(white person voice) guess how many slurs i can reclaim. i can say slurs, did you know that? i was so excited when i realized i was gay because i could say faggot. guess how many slurs i can reclaim. it’s literally my dream to be able to say as many slurs as possible. this is a normal thing. guess how many slurs i can reclaim. i can call you a faggot btw. because of Reclamation. what slurs am i able to say when im [xyz marginalized group]? wait wait let me show off my slur collection. faggot dyke and [slur that they definitely cannot reclaim]. how cool is that, eh? guess how many slurs i can reclaim. guess how m

i have come to the conclusion that white queer people are obsessed with reclaiming slurs to fill the hole of not being able to say the n-slur