Discombobulated

This site is fucking toxic and it’s making people suffer more than they need to.

Also to those who have the disorder and do this on purpose:

The only excuse is no excuse.

If you’re the kind of person with “unfollowing anxiety” I want you to know it’s okay to unfollow me

 I don’t care if we’re mutuals, friends in real life, family, whatever

Shoutout to the people with DID/OSDD that are still hurting

To the people that live with their abusers

To the people who can’t afford therapy

To the people who can afford therapy but are struggling to find the right therapist because being with the wrong one can do more harm than good

To the people who don’t live with their abuser(s) but still see them daily

To the people who are trying to get away but can’t or don’t know how to

To the people who’s abusers still harass them even after they got away

- Don’t make a big deal out of it

- say hello to whoever’s out

- check if they’re okay. Sometimes switches can be caused by trauma triggers

- Ask if they know where they are, what they’re doing, etc. If they don’t, tell them

(Reminder if you reblog, you answer only the ask you are comfortable with. No one can force you to answer a question. If someone spam, block without mercy. ANSWERING IS ALWAYS OPTIONAL.)

Cheese Cake - How old are you?

Chocolate Muffin - How old were you when you had your first kiss?

French Toast - Have you ever looked at the star with someone you love?

Strawberry Jello - When was the last time you stared at the clouds?

Cotton Candy - Are there any of your friends you would date if they revealed they have a crush on you?

Lemon Cake - If your s/o or crush went through sex change, how would you feel?

Eclair au Chocolat - Do you fear you missed your soulmate along the way?

Vanilla Pancakes - Is there someone you never spoke to you would have sex with?

Bubble Gum - Is there a location you always wanted to go to, to have sex?

Sugar Pie - Have you ever had sex in another country?

Red Velvet Muffin - What are your body measurement?

Caramel Square - What is the prettiest part of the human body in your opinion?

Pink Popcorn - What is your favorite part of your own body?

Pudding - Would you have surgery if you could and it was seemless?

Orange Ice Cream - How many partners have you ever had?

Raspberry Granola - Have you ever regretted having sex with someone?

Oatmeal - Did you go through the awkward moment of sex ed from your parents?

Mango Smoothie - Which star would you marry instantly if you could?

Blueberry Pie - If you could marry the person you want, where would you want to live with them?

Banana Bread - Are you LGBT?

Milkshake - Would you date a trans person?

Cherry Popsicle - Do you know where your very first crush is?

Caramel Apple - Are you single and if you are, are you actively looking for someone to date?

Chocolate Chip Cookies - Would you date someone if your current crush doesn’t come true?

Watermelon Sour Candy - What would you wear if you could go to the Emmy Awards and which star would you go with?

Sometimes that one reblog makes the difference.

Many survivors feel ashamed when they’re hypersexual. Society assumes trauma survivors are automatically sex repulsed.

That’s not always the case. Many survivors are hypersexual or may even fluctuate between the two.

It is okay if you are sex repulsed. It’s okay if you’re hypersexual. It’s okay if you’re both.