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Reference guide to Gender & Sexuality

Gender and sexuality are two major parts of our identity; so no matter what facet of our life it is, whether be it our social life, work-life, academic life, familial life; our sexual orientation and gender identity impacts it all. We all have gone through adolescence and can accept the fact that it can be confusing and challenging. Think of how efficient it would be if teenagers today were educated about this in school. They won’t have to spend hours, months, years of their lives struggling with their identity. We can’t leave it to chance that kids will learn on their own since not every kid has access to the internet, or that parents will teach them since most parents aren’t equipped to teach on this subject.

Our own society can make us feel alienated when there is no awareness or acceptance of different Gender identities and Sexual orientations.

At least that’s how I felt all throughout my teenage years, different and ununderstood. It took me many years to figure out that I’m Ace, 19 to be exact, all because there isn’t much awareness about this identity in my circles.

I wanted to help anyone questioning their gender or sexual identity by putting together this guide. It’s something I wish existed and was accessible to me when I was young. I’ll be glad to know if this helps even one person.

If you’re questioning or simply curious or want to learn more to support your LGBTQIA+ folks:

Visit this website

Go to Resources, where,

Option 1 includes PDF download option for the entire guide

Option 2 includes PDF download option for Gender only

Option 3 includes PDF download option for Human Sexuality only

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Click here to directly go to resources page

Click on PDF button to download.

Also option 1 is the full guide and option 2&3 are breakdowns of the full guide.

(I hope this clears any confusion, dm me if you still can’t access the resources)

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Common Microagressions Towards Asexual People

TW: Harmful stereotypes and common statements/questions towards asexual and aromantic people.

Microaggressions are “brief and commonplace daily verbal, behavioral, or environmental indignities, whether intentional or unintentional, that communicate hostile, derogatory, or negative slights and insults toward members of oppressed groups”

Even within the research on asexuality as a sexual orientation it is so important to note that there have been microaggressions perpetrated by the researchers, namely that asexuality was described as a fascinating oddity in sexuality research rather than a natural part of the sexuality spectrum.

In some research reports it has been stated that asexual persons who engage in sexual activity likely have a physical or psychological impairment to their "true" sexuality.

People having their relationships invalidated as "not real" because they were not having sex or sexual attraction wasn't a part of their attraction to their partner.

Doctors refusing to prescribe necessary medications after finding out that their patient was asexual, citing concern that the medication was causing their asexuality as reasoning for refusal. (e.g. antidepressants)

Doctors wrongfully diagnosing a patient with an arousal disorder “despite the fact that self-identifying as asexual now disqualifies one from that diagnosis”

Friends and family members communicating their disappointment as a result of their conflation of aromanticism with asexuality.

Infantilization of those who identify as asexual, assumptions that one is a late bloomer, or has immaturity and child-like innocence in life as a result of their asexuality.

Asexual persons being regarded as less than human and more machine-like or even perceived as incapable of love.

Unsolicited questions about sex drive, sexual tendencies, etc. (e.g. “how do you know you’re queer?”)

Taking asexuality as a challenge; claiming that having sex with someone would “fix” them, claiming that sexual orientation could be changed.

Corrective rape to try and “cure” asexuality

Being taught in high school sex ed that if you don’t experience sexual attraction you have some sort of disorder

Being told by other members of the LGBTQ+ community that asexuals and aromantics do not belong in the community because they do not have shared experiences.

Erasure of asexual characters in media (e.g. Jughead Jones) or depiction of asexual persons as sick or lying on shows like House

Here are a couple more examples on bias and its effect on asexual folks:

“There has been some research that indicates heterosexual persons are intentionally biased against asexual persons and would likely avoid them and discriminate against them in housing and jobs, sometimes even preferring other sexual minorities over asexual people (MacInnis & Hodson, 2012).”

“Asexual individuals were significantly more likely to answer yes to the questions on mood and anxiety disorders than other non-heterosexual participants.”

In case you’d like to read more bout the microagressions asexual people experience, and just general asexuality I’ll link the thesis about it here.

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Reasons You Can’t Have A Significant Other While Asexual

1) YOU FUCKING CAN

2) IT’S LITERALLY NOBODY’S BUSINESS

3) DO WHAT MAKES YOU AND YOUR HEART HAPPY

4) LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST EXTENT AND DON’T LET ANYONE TELL YOU YOU’RE WRONG FOR DOING IT

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It never made sense to me, when people said they were going through a dry spell. My life, technically all desert, all parched, but I never felt thirsty. And isn’t that the most important part of feeling thirsty? The fact that you feel it? This is a poem about sex, but it’s the way sex has always seemed to me. So, there is no body against the wall, no hand discovering a secret inside me, no pleasure that can’t come from something else. I love the power in small gestures, in sharing nudity, the way I change from a locked house to an open window. What a feeling, the impossibility of trust, the delicate bridge that is my body on another body, how important it is, that space between us, that is never really crossed, never really touched. When I told someone I wouldn’t have sex with him, he said he respected that. Love, he said, makes everything. It is powerful that I am waiting. But I wasn’t waiting. I have never waited. There is no curse to be lifted, no dying flower to heal, no promise to God or my mother. Let me say here, how unfair it is that love comes in exactly one kind of building kit, how cruel that the things my hands make are somehow not real enough, only in 2-D. Once, in an argument, I told someone that there are millions of people who choose not to be sexually active, that some of these people are in relationships, hell, some of them are married. He didn’t understand. What’s the point of getting married then? We were on a first date. I don’t know why I asked, but I felt a shutter close in me. I felt an annex build in me. The first time I kissed someone, I was 20 years old and it was everything I wanted. But to get there, I had to listen to friends tell me at 19, 18, 17, 16, 15 to just get over the things in my head, back then, when I didn’t have the vocabulary to give my feelings a face and maybe it sounded like I had jailed myself, had perfected my own suppression, and needed an escape plan. I wish someone had told me it was okay and I was okay and nothing about me needed to change or disappear or become quiet. I wish I had had the words to say what I felt and didn’t feel; a word for myself, not an incantation or a magic trick, just a fact, just a truth; a key turning, a door opening.

Yena Sharma Purmasir, “twenty eight of thirty” (2017) / “BEFORE THE LETTER A” (via fly-underground)

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Growing Up Asexual

When you’re in high school and you’re just figuring yourself out and people keep badgering you for who your crush is and you legit don’t have one but they don’t believe you so you make one up on the spot and they think it’s weird bc ‘why would you find that person attractive?’ when in reality you just panicked.

Thinking you’re broken or thinking you’re repressing something from deep childhood trauma because anyone you mention it to can’t understand why you don’t feel that kind of attraction, when in reality it’s just the natural way you are.

People saying you just have to meet the right person.

People saying it’s a chemical imbalance in your brain.

Not feeling welcome in the LGBTQIAP+ community because you don’t feel attraction towards anyone, especially attraction towards the same sex, but also not feeling welcome by The Straights™ because you’re not sexually attracted to people of the opposite sex (see also: the A stands for Ally). (Or not feeling welcome because you’re heteromantic asexual, and you’ve heard that asexuals are only allowed to call themselves Queer or LGBT+ if they experience same-sex attraction romantically).

CONSTANTLY questioning yourself and invalidating yourself because maybe you’re just overthinking it and need to stop worrying so much about it.

Wanting to use the umbrella term Queer but quickly learning that people assume that means you just like people of your sex and having to clarify, leading to you having to educate them and and validate yourself through that explanation, but it being particularly difficult because you’re so sick of people not understanding and ending up having to explain.

Feeling like you want a romantic relationship and are ready for one but anyone you might be interested in hearing that you’re asexual immediately gives up and considers you a futile case because the sex thing is out, and who would want a romantic relationship without sex? When in reality asexuals can be however sexually active we want to be, regardless of attraction.

Feel free to add on, these are just a few of my experiences.

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PLACES TO DONATE AND SIGN TO SUPPORT BLM

(Do not donate money to change.org, none of their funds go to their petitions or organizations)

I Run With Maud - a fundraiser for the family of Maud to support them financially and seek justice. Ahmaud Arbery is black man who was chased and gunned down by two white men. (donation)

Minnesota freedom fund - raise money to bail out minnesota protesters (donation)

Official George Floyd donation fund (donation

The heart of a chef - Help pay for a black chef’s medical expenses

Justice for Sheku Bayoh - A black male who was taken into police custody and never returned home (petition)

Justice for Jennifer Jeffley - A black woman who was arrested at the age of 15 for a crime she did not commit (petition)

Abolish prison labor in the US (petition)

Free Willie Simmons - A black man serving 38 years for stealing $9 (petition)

Free Siyanda Mngaza - A young black woman sentenced to 4 1/2 years for self defence (petition)

Drop all charges against trafficking survivor Chrystul Kizer - A black woman incarcerated for using self defence against a trafficker (petition)

Justice for Zinedine - A black woman who was r*ped and he walks free. (petition)

Justice for Joāo Pedro - A 14 year old black boy who was shot in his home by the Rio de Janeiro police and died. 72 bullet holes were found in his home. (petition)

Justice for Sean Reed - A young black man who’s life ended after excessive violence by the cops against him while he was unarmed. (petition)

Justice for Breonna Taylor - A black woman, an award winning EMT who was killed by police in her home after an illegal unnanounced drug raid. They went to the WRONG HOUSE. (petition)

Exonerate Eric Riddick - A black man who was sentenced to life in prison for a crime he did not commit in 1992. There was no physical evidence. (petition)

Justice for Elijah Nichols - A black man who was attacked by a predominantly white fraternity party, stabbed his attackers in self defence, and is now incarcerated for it. (petition)

Justice for Emerald Black - A black pregnant woman who was attacked by the police for having bad registration tags. She was stomped in the stomach causing her to miscarry. (petition)

Justice for Amiya Braxton - A black child who was hit by a car. No one took her case serious and the driver was not charged. (petition)

Justice for Belly Mujinga - A black woman who was attacked while she had COVID-19 which likely lead to her death.(petition)

Justice for Tamir Rice - A 12 year old black boy who was shot and killed by officers for playing with a toy gun. The officers were not charged. (petition)

Justice for Andile Mchunu - A missing black man who was last seen beaten by a group of men. (petition)

Disbarment of George E. Barnhill - The man who decided to sit on the case of Ahmaud Arbery. (petition)

Criminal charges against Travis and Greg McMichael in the murder of black jogger Ahmaud Arbery. (petition)

Correcting a wrongful conviction against Kyjuanzi Harris - A black man who was arrested without cause. He has been in prison for 9 years now. (petition)

Justice for Darrius Stewart - A black man who was killed by a cop for a mistaken identity. (petition)

Reopen Kendrick Johnsons case - A black man who was killed by a man through a jealous fight over a girl. The autopsy revealed that his death was not accidental, the man admits to murder, yet the case is closed. (petition)

Raise the degree - remove bail for Derek Chauvin, the man who killed George Floyd (petition)

Exoneration of Albert Wilson - A black male wjo was sentenced by an all white jury 12 years for making out with a white woman in a bar. (petition)

Julius Jones - An innocent man set to be excecuted in oklahoma (petition)

Junk the anti-terrorism bill- a bill is trying to get passed calling protests, mass mobilizations, and political activities “terrorism” and trying to make them illegal (petition)

Justice for Darrius Stewart - a 19 year old who was gunned down by a white police officer (petition)

Free Wis. teen facing life in prison for killing her rapist (petition)

Justice for Alejandro Vargas Martinez - A black 15 year old who was shot 7 times while walking to school (petition)

I need to share this right now so I can eat but i will add more later! I DON’T care if its not ACNH. If this bothers you, unfollow me. I couldn’t care less. It bothers me how little I see donation and petition links on here, i have a good amount of followers on here, so see this. sign them.

Please sign them ALL. It really is NOT that hard. And share so others will do the same.

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HERE is a thurough link for every city’s bail funds!!!

Reclaim the Block - an organization to help the Minneapolis community to access housing, youth services, harm reduction, and protection for low wage workers. (donation)

Help coach Steve Parker get back in the game - Black tennis player Steve Parker was diagnosed with COVID-19 and recovered and then later suffered a serious stroke. Help pay for his medical and rehabilitation bills. (donation)

Columbus freedom fund - bail out columbus protesters and people in need (donation)

Detroit Justice - bail out protesters and people in need (donation)

Humanity behind bars - an organization dedicated to building inside and outside alliances and re-entry networks of care. (donation)

Atlanda solidarity fund- bail out atlanta protesters (donation)

Brooklyn community bail fund (donation)

Philly bail fund (donation)

National revolving bail fund (donation)

NYC Free Them All bail fund (donation)

Chicago bail fund (donation)

Boston Mass bail fund (donation)

Kansas community bail fund (donation)

Hawaii community bail fund (donation)

Vegas freedom fund (donation)

Memphas bail fund (donation)

Nebraska left coalition (donation)

NC community bail fund (donation)

Milwaukee freedom fund (donation)

Portland freedom fund

Alachua COVID-19 Bond Fund - Release those from jail to protect them from COVID (donation)

Detroit bail fund (donation)

People’s city counsil freedom fund - Increase the safety and bail of protesters protesting the lack of funds LA provides for it’s people during COVID-19 (donation)

Richmund community bail fund - bail out richmund protesters (donation)

BYP100 - A registered cheritable organization to support social welfare giving. (donation)

North Star Health Collective - Help support a stronger healthier community (donate)

Lousville community bail fund - bail out lousville protesters (donation)

Black visions donation (donate)

Nadarrius Lundy memorial fund - Nadarrius lost his life at 15 years old drowning in Jacob’s Creek, help pay for his memorial funds (donate)

BLACK LIVES MATTER - fund their movement (donation)

Greene Family fire relief - The Greene family of 11 lost their house due to an electrical fire, help pay for their expenses (donation)

Marcus Jackson medical fund - Marcus Jackson needs help fighting bone cancer (donation)

COVID-19 survivor, Ron’s Road to recovery - help pay his hospital bills (donation)

Jessica Mahone - Her and her 9 year old son were hit by a drunk driver, help pay her medical bills (donation)

Comfort and support for the Moncrease family - In the midst of Maria being 9 months pregnant it was found that Justice had a terminal and mutated form of Multiple Myeloma. (donation)

Help a front line nurse and baby get proper care - Sylvia Leroy, a pregnant nurse, positive with COVID-19 suffered from cardiac arrest leaving her with brain injury from lack of oxygen (donation)

Support Rod Stoddart’s family - Help Rod’s family after his passing of COVID-19 (donation)

Justice for Greg Hill - Greg Hill, a black man, was killed in his garage by a sheriff’s deputy for a loud music complaint. The jury gave Hill’s estate $4 ($1 for each child’s pain and suffering and $1 for funeral expenses) Help repare his home and care for his children’s needs (donation)

Alton Sterling Family Scholarship - Sterling was shot and killed by police for selling CDs outside a food mart. Help pay for his children’s school and needs. (donation)

I DONT care that this is long, we need people’s attention.

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