Enigmanarium

Ned can absolutely fuck ALL THE WAY OFF. I am glad they fired him, but as a person who was the victim of a cheater, this reads to me...loudly.

Cheaters START by excusing their bullshit. Someone agreed to it therefore it was ok. WRONG. Your spouse did not therefore it's bullshit. FURTHERMORE in *this case* he screwed an EMPLOYEE which is 50 shades of illegal!

Next, she was engaged...WAS....so a marriage, a wedding, and TWO CHILDHOODS are brutally impacted and all that *before* the impact on the buisness relationships!

Then there is the fact his ENTIRE public facing persona was built on loving his wife/being married. "Me think thou doth protest too much..."

I was fully dismissed when I told them I had an early stage miscarriage and then totally emotionally abandoned both pregnancies. ZERO JOY from their dad. My delivery of both kids was dictated TO ME by their dad and my relatives (including the same sister) and then my older suffered delays because I WAS NOT ALLOWED to let my son have *first experiences * unless dad was at home to see them.

When I insist on my needs to enforce boundaries and get closure and healing for having been cheated on, violated, and exposed to FUCKING COVID along with our kids FFS, the one thing I ask for is the one thing *destroyed*.

I am told my needs are irrelevant because the priority is their sense of shame and guilt. They claim to be protecting me from the contents AS IF I GAVE UP MY AUTONOMY and said they get to decide for me what choices to make! Bitch, you fucking chose to cheat and hurt me this way...YOU DO NOT GET TO DICTATE MY HEALING AND CLAIM TO BE PROTECTING ME FROM ANY GOD DAMN THING EVER AGAIN FUCKER.

It was months of "it's just flirting...ok it's just 'emotional cheating'...ok i fucked a stranger i met on fb...ok, i made plans to DTF the week of our anniversary while you had 3 root canals in a 2 week span...ok, i actually fucked a stranger 3 wks after our anniversary and 3 weeks before your birthday....NO, you don't deserve evidence to prove I have told you everything! My word is absolutely good enough and you are too fragile to see everything we sexted (i forgot to admit we sexted and kept doing it for weeks after I said I had stopped) because in 12yrs together i never sent you a sext but I sent this total stranger many in the months were had this going. So what if i was also posting secret nudes of myself on a tumblr profile and nowhere else because i knew you didn't use tumblr? I didn't show my nipples therefore i did nothing wrong! Chastising my THOUSAND PLUS followers for NOT sharing my NSFW content was just a *joke*, can't you take a joke? Yes it was months AFTER I finally 'confessed fully' to the covid affair, but so what? The problem is clearly you being autistic and not what I have done."