ditsydumpling

Who is this survey for?

Non feedists. If you are in a feedist relationship but don't identify as a feedist, feel free to answer. (Feedists please don't answer because obviously your answers would all be positive. Reblogging to encourage others to answer is encouraged. If you're in the feedist closet and you want to recommend it to friends, you could try saying "I just learned about this kink through this survey, maybe you would like to take it and learn about it?" If you have the type of relationship for it) There are options for asexuals throughout.

All questions are optional, so if something isn't applicable/you don't want to answer it, you don't have to. There is an "other" option for each question, but please try to use the preselected multiple choice unless you really don't feel like any apply. If I get a ton of responses it will be easier to look at the responses if they're preselected.

There's 35-40 questions, I expect it should take around 20 minutes to take.

When does it close/when will the results be published?

This is performative morality, and I’ll write a bigger post about that later. But for now, I’ll just say:

1. @kodeeffa is really wonderful. She’s *nice*. I’m aware of her kinks; they are the reason that I’m interested in promoting her blog. I’d die for her, and there are plenty of people who would consider themselves lucky to do just that.

2. This is kink-shaming

I'm 24. I am a freelance creator. I went to school to study film and television and am back to being unemployed after achieving my dream of working on a primetime network tv show - it chewed me up and spit me out. I couldn't handle the 14 hour days and the immense pressure. I also have autism and adhd, which makes almost everything in my day-to-day life challenging, especially the job search. I’ve been hired for some seasonal work and some shitty jobs that I couldn’t keep, and am back to the drawing board. don't really know what I want to do with my life or even what I am realistically able to do, but I know that I am so extremely passionate about the work that I do on this blog and if I could do this as my job, I would in a heartbeat. I have about 10,000 followers on tumblr alone and I’m not on other platforms yet. I’ve toyed with the idea of posting exclusive essays to my ko-fi, I do have a podcast idea in the works (haven’t worked out how to monetize that yet), but I really have no idea if that’s something people would actually pay for. I guess I just have to try. based on principle I want my work to be free to all, I just don’t have a large enough audience to get by based on donations (I think). I owe it to myself to give it a shot and really use all of my options here because I know that if I got even 10% of my followers to give $1 per month I would actually be able to start supporting myself. and that would be crazy

the concept of someone calling me a stupid pig while actively making me worse is driving me crazy.

stuffing my mouth full of sweets and saying i've gained a few pounds recently, actively creating a reward response to the condescension.

making it harder for me to think every time you take on a certain tone of voice, or even worse— every time you have food in your hand.

Feedism as a way to say fuck you to the government and racist/misogynistic beauty standards

Feedism as a way to meet your gender transition goals

Feedism as a way to connect with your partner

Feedism as a way to show love and pleasure to your body

Feedism for the sake of sex, art, food