Next year I want to focus on levelling up and growing. So before the the end of the year I want to decide on my goals and areas of focus for next year.

The next two weeks are for:

Creating vision boards - I want to make an overall vision board that I can use as my home screen to remind myself everyday of what I’m striving to accomplish, as well as vision boards for every aspect of my life: health, career, relationships, home, leisure and look

Writing down my goals - same as with vision boards, I want to create overall goals for the year, as well as goals in every aspect of my life, probably around 2-3 each to not be overwhelmed

Deciding my boundaries - I’m tired of people pleasing and putting myself last, so that’s what I want to change in the next year. I’ll decide and write down my boundaries and things I will not do anymore and stick to it

Starting a journal - I’ll buy a notebook and make it into my journal. At the end of it I’ll write down my goals, boundaries, and put my vision boards so that I can always go back to them and then check my progress at the end of the year. I’ll write a quick entry everyday to process the events and finish all of them with 1-3 things I’m grateful for each day

…eventually. I grew up in an environment of hyper independence (by societal force and personal choice) and have heard “I don’t need a man!” “I don’t need you!” “I’m good being single idc” my whole life and I’m going to be honest-

Count me tf out.

I need a man, eventually. I need a husband…eventually. I need someone to take my car in for maintenance…eventually. I need in house peen…eventually.

I’m not trying to reach retirement single, sorry. Decades of marriage until my last breath is the goal.