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So here’s some. Add your own if you’d like!

* listens to you talk when you have issues and supports you through them

* stops doing things you tell them make you uncomfortable

* compromises when necessary

* never puts you down deliberately, especially not publically

* supports your ambitions

* uses a calm rational tone during arguments

* is able to apologise when they’re in the wrong

* wants to get to know your friends

* has their own friends too

* respects your financial situation & considers it when making plans

* thanks you for speaking your mind

* acknowledges & plans for potential negative outcomes

Florence and the Machine, No Light No Light

Virginia Woolf

With the stars in her eyes, and veils in her hair, with cyclamen and wild violets (Woolf).

I wonder if you think about me, as you went home, or thought of me when the moon rose (Woolf).

If you consider things like the stars, our affairs don’t seem to matter very much, do they?

This morning I am wonderfully peaceful. Like a storm that has spent itself (Woolf).

I wish you’d find the exit out of my head (Woolf).

Have you seen any photos of her? An extraordinary lonely face (Simone de B. on V. Woolf).

Growing up is losing some illusions, in order to gain others (Woolf).

Darling, you are an angel - an angel (V. Sackville to V. W.)