Genuinely, what happened to βfeminism is for everyoneβ?
Thatβs the feminism I grew up with: encouraging people to recognize that fighting sexism and restrictive gender roles helps folks of every gender. Weβd push back on the idea that feminists hate men, pointing to inclusive feminist literature and how many men are feminists.
Now, there are so many people insisting that the solution to patriarchy is to openly hate and ostracize men no matter what. Why? What is the benefit? Itβs certainly not effective in fighting oppressive structures to exclude half the population from your cause on the basis of immutable traits. It may feel cathartic to say horrible things about men and try to punish them for your frustrations with patriarchy. But the only actual effect I see is the increasing right-wing radicalization of young men, who are being told that the left hates them for the way they were born and presented with an abundance of proof that itβs true.
Why are we going back to treating men and women as different species? It doesnβt fix things to say βwell women are the good gender and men are the bad oneβ this time. If you sincerely want to dismantle sexism, youβre going to have to unpack and let go of all sex and gender essentialismβeven that which considers women inherently pure and men inherently immoral.




















