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Jensen Hiatus Love | week one 

JaredHiatusLove | Week One » Favorite Quote

No, I do not. J2 are on a different level. I’ve never seen 2 people want to spend as much time together as J2 do. The only people that come close are the happily married couples I know.

The guys I know, actually live with their families. They try their hardest to spend as much time with their spouses & kids. They even sacrifice time with their close guy friends for it.

Family vacations & holidays are usually just for family, not close friends. The only holidays I’ve seen close guy friends hang out, is memorial day, 4th of July, St. Patrick’s Day, & NYE. I’ve seen close guy friends hang out on father’s day too but it was organized by their spouses or it was a community get together. I’ve never seen any go on family vacations together. I’ve only seen women do that with their girl friends.

I’ve seen close guy friends go on group guy vacations, no spouses & no kids.

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An anon on spn_gossip recently made an excellent comment about this.

“What type of man do you know who constantly scream they’re madly in love with the love of their life, acts extremely possessive of their wife like she’s about to be taken from him, threatens to kick his fans asses over their wife, and acts like he can’t live without her yet willingly live in a separate country throughout the entire marriage despite children being in the picture? Both of these men rushed to get engaged supposedly without knowing the other was proposing and married within months of each other. You would think these men wouldn’t want to live apart from their wives for one day.”

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Even if the marriages were real, i’d never call it “relationship goals” because it’s rather the opposite and the coldness of the marriages is rather apparent. And what kinda women would wnat to be treated by their husbands like G&D? Being looked at by your husband with miserable/teary eyes before he says his vow at your wedding; being said by him that he bought you and he’s gonna keep you; being objectified by your husband whenever he opens his mouth to talk about you; having your marriage laughed by your own brother; spending 9 months of a year being staying at home alone while your husband stays in another contury semi-living with his BFF – and neither of you even tries to think of a way to get together even though you don’t have any job to do at home; no sweet dates like wandering around the city/going out for ice cream or yogurt runs/drafting from museum to musem for you two when he finally got a short time off (because apparently he’d rather do these with his BFF); moving to a place where you’re a totally stranger to just because he wants to live a stone's throw away from his BFF; and barely having any exclusive family holiday for mere the two of you because he always invites his BFF to crash (and sometimes he goes off to spend holidies with his BFF without you). And the list is still going.