David Ellis - Human Insight

AGE OF EMERGENCE

The first 7 years of life for us as humans are the formative years. This is the time we lay the foundation for who we will be and how we will behave as life unfolds and sends curve balls our way. 

It is in this formative time we live in a Theta brainwave. Children upwards to 7, live and operate in Theta, they are super connected to their internal world, they are exclusively connected into their Heart and live in the realm of imagination, daydreaming and God connection. Rational thinking has not yet been formed and therefore they feel as a a guidance to what is right from wrong. 

In Theta we are in a super learning state, either as a child or as an adult. In this state, we are open to suggestion. This is the state we enter whilst in hypnosis. However, any suggestion, no matter how rational or critical, will not form a bond, if it is not in congruence with our deepest core values and truths. 

For this reason, hypnosis does not work for many people. 

The age of emergence is the time frames we ascend from one Chakra phase to another. Each phase usually lasts for 7 years. Sometimes we become stuck in one of the age phases and act out that behaviour throughout our lives. Because there is a block in the Chakra, caused by an experience within that Chakra phase. We only know how to react or behave by experience. 

EVERYTHING EMITS LIGHT

In the world of scientific exploration, ground-breaking discoveries have the power to transform our understanding of life itself. One such revelatory moment came with the pioneering work of Fritz Albert Pop, a brilliant scientist who uncovered a hidden truth: all living cells emit light, a phenomenon known as bio photonic emission. Join us as we delve into this fascinating realm of biphotonic and the profound implications it holds for our perception of life and health.

Fritz Albert Pop's journey into bio photonics began with the quest to understand the subtle energetic processes that occur within living systems. Armed with his curiosity and an unwavering commitment to truth, he developed sensitive detection methods to capture the faint glow emitted by cells. His experiments demonstrated that living organisms, from tiny microorganisms to complex human cells, emit measurable photons of light.

The revelation that all living cells emit light shines a new light (pun intended) on the essence of life itself. Bio photonic emissions have been linked to various physiological and psychological processes. This radiant light is thought to reflect the overall health and vitality of living organisms. It has been suggested that imbalances or disturbances in these emissions could indicate underlying health issues.

Every living cell seems to possess its own unique light signature, akin to a cellular language that communicates vital information about its condition. This phenomenon has opened exciting avenues of research in various fields, including biology, medicine, and even consciousness studies. Understanding this cellular language could pave the way for innovative diagnostic and therapeutic approaches.

The implications of Fritz Albert Pop's discovery in the realm of health and medicine are vast. Researchers are exploring the potential of bio photonics as a non-invasive diagnostic tool, aiding in the early detection of diseases and monitoring treatment responses. The integration of bio photonics into medical practices could revolutionize the way we approach healthcare, focusing on holistic and personalized treatments.

The impact of bio photonics extends beyond the physical realm. Some scientists speculate that bio photons may play a role in the communication and processing of information within the body, potentially influencing our emotions, thoughts, and consciousness. This intriguing connection between light and consciousness is an area of ongoing investigation that sparks both excitement and philosophical contemplation.

This profound discovery reminds us of the immense complexity and beauty of life. Fritz Albert Pop's legacy encourages us to keep pushing the boundaries of knowledge, to seek the hidden truths that lie beyond our current understanding, and to illuminate the world with the light of discovery.

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For parents with children who may be gay. 

How different is my gay child to my straight child?

Very different and very the same! 

Almost all young people, especially coming to, and through adolescence, may stress about school, grades, college, sports, activities, social interaction, self image, social media, friends, and fitting in and this new sexual energy surging through their minds and body. This is a stressful time in a young persons life as they test their boundaries in finding their own identity. 

It’s interesting as adults and parents how we choose to forget just how difficult and painful that period of our lives was for us. 

It’s even more interesting as parents, how we cannot empathise with our teenagers when they act out, despite the fact that we did the exact same when we were their age. 

In this really important 2nd phase of growing and developing, young people are establishing their identity and trying to figure out where they fit in. Or who they fit in with, or indeed, do they fit in at all. As a straight teen, this process is already very difficult, but gay teens only too often struggle with abandonment issues, approval issues, isolation, loneliness and the additional stress this brings. 

In a fog of new uncertainty gay teens struggle with these new questions and doubts. 

Will I have to hide who I am. What will Dad think of me. 

Will Dad still love me. 

Will I be thrown out of the house. 

Will Mum still love me. 

Will Mum be disappointed. 

How will my brother feel. 

How will my Sister react.

How will my best friend react. 

On top of this, there is always a worry whether they will be harassed about being gay, or whether they will face stereotypes or judgments if they are honest about who they really are. Being ridiculed as we mature is painful. Being ridiculed when we are young and vulnerable is suicidal, and I am not using this word lightly. 

Shame binds in secret. The longer the secret the greater the shame. 

Gays feel different from their straight peers and friends when the conversation turns to love, dating, and sex. For them, it can feel like everyone is expected to be straight, and make no mistake, they are! gays are in the minority, why wouldn’t everyone expect them to be straight. This is understandable, as 80% of the population is straight, but in this isolation,  the rational thoughts of “minority” disappears and the isolation feeling becomes amplified. 

All young teens sometimes pretend to feel things that they don’t,  in order to fit in. But with gays, they often feel they need to deny who they are, or hide an important part of themselves, to fit in. But this drives them deeper into isolation and loneliness. 

In the fog of isolation, loneliness and confusion, so many gay teens get tragically entangled in the worry about being accepted or rejected by their loved ones, or whether people will be upset, angry, or disappointed in them. This again propels them into shame and guilt. 

The fear of prejudice, discrimination, rejection, and violence, are very real and can lead some gay teens to keep their sexual orientation secret, even from friends and family who could have been a vital support. In the secret grows the shame and in the shame grows hopelessness. In hopelessness grows a lack of will to live.

Some gay teens can process their feelings and embrace them and “come out” and tell their parents and friends. Others struggle with the process of how they feel and how different they are and find it difficult to accept this aspect of their own identity. As by exposing their identity, they expose themselves in vulnerability. 

Coming out takes courage. Make no mistake about this transition. Whether the person has a wonderful support system or not. Comming out puts them in a vulnerable place. Exposing their inner self. Opening their intimacy to potential abuse as some may risk facing harassment and bullying and ridicule. 

But many gay teens who come out to their friends and families are fully accepted by them and their communities. This in turn makes them feel whole and loved, comfortable and secure about their core identity. In this acceptance brings them closer to those around them and more accepting of their own truth. 

How do I feel as a parent. 

Being a parent is not easy and as children grow into adolescence it is more difficult as adolescents is an interesting time for both parents and children. It’s a time of transition  for both. A time when the child is finding their own identify separate to the parent. Finding out who they are and how far they can push boundaries. Some see this time as rebellious. Others see it as growth. 

But for parents, this is the time when their sons and daughters are transitioning into young men and woman and in that transition, their sexuality is emerging, be that gay or straight. 

Parents experience confusion and worry around this transition as they may feel completely unprepared for this next stage of parenthood. It’s a time for parents to let go as well as hold on. It’s confusing. 

What is more confusing is, if their child is gay, because the parent has not experienced this for themselves. Therefore may bring a whole new set of questions and concerns.

Some parents are surprised to learn the truth, that their child is gay as they always thought their child was straight. In truth they never really thought about it. They just assumed their child was the same as 80% of the rest of the world. Why would they not. But maybe they should have seen the signs.

Other parents wonder whether the news is really true and whether their child is sure. Struggling with accepting this news, the parent may head down the self blame route and wonder if they did something to cause their child to be gay. 

There is no evidence that suggests being gay is the result of childhood experience. However, childhood experiences may propel the child into a belief system. An example of these experiences are as follows:

Early childhood experiences, can lock the subscoincious into a frozen moment. In other words, if a child experiences a same sex pleasurable experience that is also associated with love, caring, and belonging, which they were lacking in the family unit, thus may promote the child to grow up with this as their understanding of belonging and love. In other words, gay intimacy = love!

The same applies to parenting styles, if you have a son and you dress him as a girl and demonstrate a love and connectedness to him as a daughter rather than a son, it is possible for the son to grow believing he can only be loved if dressed in woman’s clothes. 

Great parenting is not easy. It’s a tug o war of knowing, without judgement or invasion, holding on, letting go, trusting, guidance and most of all love. 

Great parents of gay teens are accepting of their children no matter the outcome. They know their children and wait for them to come out in their own time. The subject of gayness has been an open discussion in the home without judgement, with compassion and love. Therefore a loving caring support platform has already been established. 

Other parents struggle with the news initially, but when they allow time, they realise it really does not matter. They often feel glad that their child chose to confide in them, and are proud of their child for having the courage to tell them.

Other parents feel upset, disappointed, or unable to accept their child’s sexual orientation. The parents had plans for their daughter or son. They had plans of being grand parents. They may be concerned or worried what the family will say, or what the school or college will think. Or what the neighbours might feel. 

Other parents worry that their child will be bullied, mistreated, or marginalised, because their child is gay, they feel their child is weak. They may become over protective, worrying that others might judge or reject their child. In the overprotection or smothering. The child fights for freedom and the bond between parent and child fractures. 

Some also struggle to reconcile their child’s sexual orientation with their religious beliefs, personal beliefs or social norms and sadly, some react with anger, hostility, or rejection, which I must point out is driven by fear guilt and shame. 

However, in most cases, but not all, parents find that they just need a little time and maybe a little counselling to adjust to the news. When love is the core component in any relationship, even parents who thought they could not accept their child’s sexual orientation are surprised to find that they can reach a place of understanding.

David P. Ellis