Miyo

I can’t understand how most of the men in my family are completely useless like I know that’s rude to say but they genuinely are just lazy, they don’t wanna help carry heavy stuff nor even know how to make themselves useful without instructions from a woman, not all of the men but enough to notice this. Or maybe I’m just saying this since my mother said it once and it just stuck with me. I can’t imagine how they became this way but I wouldn’t change how it is their laziness made the women more capable per say, like we r the bosses and I love this dynamic! I just wonder how it is in other house holds with their family dynamics.