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if anyone has any advice or has been through something similar feel free to share your thoughts.

i’m gonna hold your hand when i say this, but i think the other girl is the least of your worries right now. instead of wondering what she’s doing or trying to figure things out through her socials, ask yourself what you and him actually are after 6 months you deserve to know where you stand if you want something exclusive and you don’t want him entertaining other girls have that conversation with him and make sure you’re both on the same page and if you already are exclusive and he’s still crossing a boundary you’ve made clear, then that’s something you need to address with him not her. you deserve someone who makes you feel secure not someone who leaves you constantly questioning where you stand. sending you the biggest hug 💌🪽

i was starting to miss you, i was wondering where my mystery crush disappeared to i thought you were gone for good but i’m glad you found your way back 💌🪽

i totally understand where you’re coming from. i feel like every girl has had that moment where you see someone again after a long time and you just want them to think you’re pretty, it’s such a normal feeling. but don’t let feeling insecure stop you from making memories with someone you genuinely want to see. if doing your hair, getting dressed up, or anything that makes you feel confident helps, then do it!! not because you need to change, but because you deserve to feel good. i hope you get to see him and have the best time, sending you lots of love💌🪽

trust me when i say i’ve played these games before. i don’t think you’re still in love with her i think you’re still holding onto the version of her that promised she’d stay no matter how sweet those late night conversations were someone who repeatedly ignored you and made you feel embarrassed to be around them isn’t someone you deserved i know it’s hard to let go because every apology makes you think “maybe this time it’ll be different,” but after a while you realize you’re not holding onto who they are you’re holding onto who you kept hoping they’d become. don’t give someone who kept hurting you another chance in your heart when there’s someone new who’s already showing you the kindness you should’ve had from the beginning. from the way you talk about him he sounds really sweet and i think he deserves the first chance she never gave you. i’m sending you the biggest hug and i really hope everything works out for you💌🪽

misunderstandings in friendships happen way more than people talk about and they can get messy really fast when people start reacting before things are fully clear from what i’m understanding, a lot of feelings got hurt and things kind of spiraled into drama especially with it being the end of the school year when everything already feels extra intense and emotional. i know it feels huge right now, but try not to sit in the idea that everything is “over” already these situations usually feel a lot more permanent in the moment than they actually end up being, especially once everyone has had time to breathe a bit if there’s still space for it, i think the best thing you can do is try to gently clear up your side of what happened,just to make sure your words aren’t being misunderstood anymore i really hope it all works out in the end for you💌🪽

i think what’s happening is she’s in a really intense emotional space after the breakup and kind of projecting a lot of that onto you which can make everything feel way bigger than it actually is but the important part is you can’t force yourself to feel something you don’t feel, and if you tried to “be with her” just to save the friendship or calm things down it would probably end up hurting both of you in the long run i’ve seen something similar happen with my friends before and it always turns into a really messy situation that damages the friendship more than it helps best thing you can do right now is probably give her a bit of space while everything is still so heated and then when things calm down just be honest and simple with her that you care about her a lot but only as a friend, and that you can’t really force romantic feelings no matter how much you want things to be okay.i hope it all works out for you in the end, genuinely keep me updated if anything changes, sending you lots of love💌🪽