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Posted to Facebook originally. Sharing here because this is a topic that makes me lit.Ā
Summary: Google employee sends a (10 page??) memo to other employees, wherein he derides their commitment to diversity, and says that there are fewer women in tech because of biological differences.
He is fired.
Some right-wing news outlets are treating him as a martyr, and argue that he was fired for political differences and for holding views opposite to many of his co-workers. He will likely sue, and will probably use discrimination based on politics as his basis.
(My) Analysis: He was fired for creating a hostile work environment. Raise your hand if you want to work for someone who has very explicitly stated that you are bound to be inept at your job due to biology.
So he's created a hostile environment -- but isn't it hostile only because people are too sensitive and politically correct to build a thick skin against criticism?
I don't think so, and I have two reasons.
One: as a minority in anything, it gets real. Fucking. Old. having to morph ourselves to fit the standard mold. So yeah, perhaps we're a bit touchy when it comes to statements like, "aw, sweetie, you'll never be good at your job because you don't have the right chromosomes."
Two: a biological argument for vast gender differences when it comes to aptitude, intelligence, ability, work ethic, etc. are Utter Tosh.
There are only a handful of true biological differences between men and women -- and those differences are very slight. Most of our differences are enhanced by our society. By the social structures we live in. By the norms that are enforced. By the people in power who tell the minority that they don't have the "biological requirements to succeed in this field."
So, yes. Perhaps women ARE pre-disposed to not succeed in technology. But it's due to people like Fired Google Employee telling us we can't and sowing resentment and doubt in us.
Conclusion: screw the Status Quo. Change in diversity policies isn't "political correctness" for the sake of fragile snowflake egos. It's to realize the full potential of every single person in this country. Stop trying to hold us back.
While walking through an old building for work, I found the site of a past -- or future -- interrogation-turned-murder scene.Ā
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We found a distillery in North Kansas City. They give tours, and mix a bomb-ass cocktail. 10/10 would recommend. Ā
Laena, the Halfling Mystic
This is a backstory I wrote for a character in an upcoming Dungeons and Dragons campaign. Itās in the Unearthed Arcana setting, which is essentially the Wild West of D&D. In this world, new technology has enabled folks to drill passage through an insurmountable mountain range and explore the untouched wilds on the Other Side.
Laena was orphaned at a young age. Her mother and father perished in a fire that destroyed several city blocks. She, at the tender age of three, was carried to safety by her elder brother, Pereldon. For a very short time they wandered the streets, attempting to survive in he chaotic aftermath of the fire. Soon, however, they were picked up by the city guards.
Torrential downpours may have been in the forecast, but the first game of the kickball season went on all the same.
If you miss the halcyon days of kindergarten, then this is a rec league sport you should check out.
An Origin Story
This is the origin story of a world Iām building for a D&D campaign.
In the beginning, during the First Age, all that existed was Life and Death.
But alone, Life and Death had no meaning. Thus, in the Great Realm they created an ocean. On that ocean they built a vast continent, called Santerra. And it was on Santerra that Life and Death created the First Race.
Figure Painting
What encapsulates the idea of a Renaissance Woman more than the art of drawing Naked People?
Despite having taken art classes throughout elementary and high school (including some from the Kansas City Art Institute), I managed to go 24 years of life without drawing a single nude portrait.
That changed earlier this year when I took my first figure drawing class.
(Well, actually, it was an oil painting figure class. Because why do anything in half measures if it can be extremely difficult, right? ;D)
Normally I share my art on facebook. But it didnāt feel right posting nude paintings for my grandma to see. Plus, Iām not sure if Iād be flagged for explicit content.
So I will share my never-before-seen paintings here, below the cut!

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Re-branding: The Basics
Iām taking this blog in a different direction. Iāll post a lot more original content (as a challenge to myself to MAKE more original content). Here is how I will (attempt to) tag everything:
Posts about:
beer or alcohol: #drink up
food: #delectable sustanence
writing: #words words words
clothing: #faux fashionista
animals: #fuzz bucket
art: #art
Kansas City: #KC tours
If you like what I share, but think I can make improvements, let me know! Iām a novice (see: dilettante), and there is always something for me to learn.
women arent complicated youre just dumb
Women aren't any more complicated than men you're just used to thinking of them as objects instead of human beings
Snapchat caption of a self portrait I sketched tonight. First thing to note is that, for an hour-long session, as a very rusty artist I'm pleased with how this turned out, aesthetically. That said... It doesnt look like me. Not really. It's too perfect. But I wasn't trying to draw myself perfect. I just want to learn how to draw reality. This isn't me.
Iām gonna depress the hell out of all of you. ready? ok go
so, that āstop devaluing feminized work postā
nice idea and all
but the thing is, as soon as a decent number of women enter any field, it becomes āfeminized,ā and it becomes devalued.
as women enter a field inĀ greater number, people become less willing to pay for it, the respect for it drops, and itās seen as less of a big deal. itās not about the job- itās about the number of women in the job.
observe what happened with biology. itās STEM, sure, but anyone in a male-dominated science will sneer at the idea of it being āfor real,ā nevermind that everyone sure took it more seriously when it was a male dominated field. so has happened with scores of other areas; nursing comes to mind
so the thing is, itās not the work or the job that has to be uplifted and seen as more respectable. it will never work out, until people start seeing women as respectable
but thereās a doozy and who the fuck knows if itās ever happening in my life time
āobserve what happened with biology. itās STEM, sure, but anyone in a male-dominated science will sneer at the idea of it being āfor real,ā nevermind that everyone sure took it more seriously when it was a male dominated field.ā
Personal anecdote time!Ā Iām in a biology graduate program.Ā An acquaintance wanted to introduce some guy to me because his son was thinking about becoming an undergrad science major.Ā When he found out I was in the biology department, he grinned and said, āWell, I guess thatās kind of related to science.ā
I gave him what I hope was an icy look and said, āIsnāt it strange how men outside the field started saying that right around the time biology majors shifted from mostly male to mostly female?ā
The guy got this look on his face like he was about to play the ājust a jokeā card, and then an older woman who had been standing nearby, talking to someone else, turned to me and said, āThe same thing happened with real estate.āĀ She went on to explain that, over the course of the career, the male-to-female ratio among real estate agents had dropped, and the pay and āprestige factorā of that job dropped along with it.
This is also famous for happening to teaching. Keep an eye on medicine over the next fifteen years and watch as it becomes less prestigious and less well-paid.
It also happened to secretarial/administrative work - in the 19th century, clerical work was utterly respectable and seen as requiring quite a lot of talent and skill (which it still does!) but then along came the typewriter and women entering the field and HEY PRESTO āsheās just some secretaryā
at my university, chemical engineering, or chem eng, was often referred to as āfem engā why? because itās an exact 50/50 ratio of women to men, which clearly makes it too feminine. in the 70s/80s chemical engineering was one of the most important and hardest engineering fields (plastics! pulp and paper! OIL) but now that there are more women in the field itās considered an easier field, in comparison to other fields.
for example, i once heard a girl in mech eng list some of the engineering fields in the order she thought was hardest to easiest. you know what it was? electrical, mechanical, chemical. itās absolutely no surprise that this list is also a handy ordering of fewest women in the field to most women in the field.
AND, another point! this happens the other way around too. computer science related fields used to be dominated by women, which made it not very important (switchboard operators? yup). once men started taking over the field, well thatās when the big money and prestige came in.
The field of anthropology, which is becoming female dominated from what I can see, has been determined to be useless by some. (Iāve even had girls in STEM fields tell me I donāt study a āreal scienceā so howās about that internalized misogyny for ya)Ā When I was majoring in anthropology, Gov. Rick Scott determined that Florida didnāt need any more anthropologists and wanted to reduce funding to programs and increase funding to STEM programs. While not considered a STEM field, anthropologists have contributed to the research behind STEM programs and provide a wide variety of services to Florida alone. A team of anthropologists created a powerpoint āThis is Anthropologyā to talk about dozens of programs and services they contribute to in Florida which include healthcare programs, education programs, disaster relief, forensic investigation, environmental programs and conservation efforts, research for fortune 500 businesses, agricultural programs, immigration programs, programs and services for the elderly, etc.Ā Iām also in the field of education, and weāre constantly made out to be overpaid (weāre not) and made out to be incapable of doing our jobs without very strict guidance.Ā
Itās all very insulting, really. No matter what we study. No matter what we do to earn a living. It will never be good enough.
That original post really bothered me and this post really lays out why. Womenās work is devalued because women exist there. It doesnāt matter how hard or āsoftā it is. Pushing women to pursue STEM careers is important because there are so many brilliant women; this doesnāt mean weāre devaluing āwomenās workā by saying they should look at other options. One of the main goals is to one day make every profession at least half women. If we do that then itās going to be a lot harder to devalue anything as womenās work.
Thereās a really sharp divide between physics/engineering/chemistry and biology at my school. Biology and microbiology faculty and students are half or mostly women wheras chemistry/physics/engineering are mostly men. My school has a huge engineering program and surprise surprise, the āeasiestā engineering program was viewed as civil engineering, which is coincidentally where most of the women are. Iāve had chemistry majors make fun of me to my back and to my face and itās horrible because even the girl chemistry majors internalize this toxic shit. I know that I certainly view myself as less intelligent than an engineer, even though Iām highly trained in my field and I expect most engineers know nothing about microbiology or molecular biology. I know I will still always feel that insecurity.
Women are systemically devalued as human beings. The least we can do is try to level out the playing field in our careers.
It has always bothered me that what I do within the field of anthropology (which includes a significant amount of chemistry, biology, anatomy, geology, statistics, use of scientific instruments and methods, and complex problem solving) is not considered to be a āhard scienceā or part of a STEM field. It never occurred to me before now that this could be partially due to the fact that biological anthropology is seen as being somehow ādilutedā because it a) incorporates a lot of social science and requires the constant consideration of social factors which are often associated with the feminine sphere and are thus ānot science,ā and b) has become a female-dominated field.
At the advent of biological anthropology, when it was male dominated (and quite problematic in its approach to race and sex - but that is not the focus of this conversation), it was considered to be a serious science, and biological anthropologists were considered to be well-trained scientific professionals. Now, it seems that the field is lumped in with the āfeminizedā scientific fields and is considered to be āalmost science.ā I would be really interested to know when this shift took place.
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I often see foxes referred to as ācatdogsā on Tumblr, but I wonder if folks realise how true that really is.
Thereās a phenomenon called convergent evolution that occurs when two taxonomically unrelated species exploit the same ecological niche. The features that are needed to best take advantage of a given niche are pretty much the same everywhere you go; thus, over time, those species will become anatomically and behaviourally similar, even though theyāre completely unrelated.
And foxes? Foxes are what you get when an ecosystem has no native small felines, so a canine species evolves to take advantage of the ecological niche that would have been exploited by a small feline, if one existed.
In other words, a fox is literally what you get when a dog tries to cat.
Conversely, hyenas are the feliform attempt at constructing a dog.
foxes and hyenas are the best
letās bring back the term ācatsā when referring to a group of people (i.e. āsee you cats laterā)
pros:
itās gender neutral
you get the chance to look like a cool jazz musician
you can compare all your friends to cats (always good)
cons:
????
it makes sense since, from what iām aware, everybody wants to be a cat, because, apparently, a catās the only cat who knows where itās at
I love this.Ā